| 2/27/2008 1:02:42 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
lita747
Monroe, MI
age: 26
| If a man says he loves you then why wont he commit???????
|
| 2/27/2008 1:18:00 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
katiescarlett72
Justin, TX
age: 35
| Could you be a little more specific.
|
| 2/27/2008 1:23:47 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
cyberangel45
Apalachicola, FL
age: 46
| guys can still love you and not be ready to commit..maybe you haven't been together long enough .
|
| 2/27/2008 1:33:32 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
lita747
Monroe, MI
age: 26
| sorry its a long story. We dated for 9 months, but he moved to California Dec 23. We have known each other for a year in March. He asked me to move with him 2 times when he was drunk. Im just in love with the guy, but i may have to let him go. Hes coming to visit in April. We will see what happens. Hes 46 years old, wouldnt you think he knows what he wants at that age lol.
|
| 2/27/2008 1:51:37 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| sorry to say,but i think he may want someone a little closer in age for a committed relationship.
|
| 2/27/2008 1:52:41 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
nyerindallas
Frisco, TX
age: 50
| There's a book called "MEN WHO CAN'T LOVE" by Steven Carter & Julie Sokol. I read it for obvious reasons, you might get a better understanding or what to look out for in guy that's commitment-phobic.
Now the not so serous answer, if he's only wants you when he's drunk. Than he'll need to be drunk all the time for this to work. Not a good sign.
|
| 2/27/2008 2:01:51 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
cyberangel45
Apalachicola, FL
age: 46
| Wily that's a good point as well...
|
| 2/27/2008 2:12:00 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
lita747
Monroe, MI
age: 26
| well thats funny because he has been dating younger girls, he has a 3yr old by a 30 yr old. Thanks for your input though. No he doesnt want me only when hes drunk, he calls every single day. Its hard to explain....i need to let him go. it pisses me off
|
| 2/27/2008 2:20:08 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| I love a lot of men - I'm not going to marry any of them. And it's unlikey I'd sleep with any of them. Still - I DO love them!
So? Where's the confusion?
[Edited 2/27/2008 2:21:45 PM]
|
| 2/27/2008 3:05:57 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50
| loving someone and committing to them are 2 different things just like loving someone and being IN LOVE are 2 different things.
Enjoy his love and IF a committment is to be, IT WILL BE. To force someone to make a committment will leave u empty in the long run. If you have to ask for it, it's not worth having.
|
| 2/27/2008 3:08:25 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
lita747
Monroe, MI
age: 26
| yeah thats true picchic!!! thanks
|
| 2/27/2008 3:16:58 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| One thing about men - they will commit when they want and when they are ready.
|
| 2/27/2008 4:02:24 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
ronn657
Stoughton, MA
age: 56
| Why is it always about the men?? I was with the same woman for two years and every time it was time she ran away.. Now she has run for good riddance
[Edited 2/27/2008 4:06:55 PM]
|
| 2/27/2008 4:13:46 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
newinil
Carlock, IL
age: 36
| Maybe all men should just be committed?
|
| 2/27/2008 4:38:03 PM | Confused!!!!! | |
eyeswideopened
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 43
| What I have learned and maybe this will help and maybe not.
Anyways....someone can say that they love you BUT keep in mind they love you as they know how to love and it may not be the same as the way YOU want to be loved.
Think about it.
|