| 2/28/2008 4:29:42 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 49
| It never ceases to amaze me how these subjects are so often viewed and approached as being mutually exclusive. I do NOT believe they are. I do NOT believe this is a zero sum game. There are degrees of acceptability in each and every 'category'.
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| 2/28/2008 4:35:31 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!
| No, as long as she's healthy
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| 2/28/2008 4:36:01 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| I wonder if all the men in Tallahassee are as accepting as you are.
[Edited 2/28/2008 4:37:09 AM]
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| 2/28/2008 11:34:29 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
cedartan
Waterloo, IA
age: 57
| > Ok, right back at you ladies. Do you want a man who is overweight or not? I get tired of the topic. Iam not now, but someday will be old, maybe bald, maybe overweight. We all probably will so I am looking for a different connection other than physical. Physical counts but not tops on my list.JMO <
I'm not overly fond of men, the way that I perceive most of them think and behave. But, on this thread, there appear to be some fine men chipping in with thoughts. It cheers me up (thanks, guys!)
onelife2live, you appear to be in fine shape now. It need not change. More than a year ago, I made the decision to permanently alter the course of my life, part of which was dropping more than 80 pounds and returning to daily workouts (weights, running, core exercising). I am wearing a size 32 waist pant for the first time since junior high school. Physically, I feel like a fit 30-something.
I'm 57 years old.
I think I was spurred to take this fitness step for several reasons, one of which was to improve my appearance for a return to dating. So far, though, I haven't been able to buy a date (laugh). I've decided that is beside the point, I'll continue to do what I'm doing for myself, first and foremost. If I can do this, anyone can do this. And, I'd urge anyone to do this. Vitality, energy, just feeling exceptionally good is a worthy end payoff in itself, imho.
Aging . . . it's a difficult concept for some of us to deal with (it is for me). But, it is possible to age gracefully, and weight control and fitness loom large in this area.
I feel so damn good I'm a little (a lot?) preachy. Hope my friends here will forgive me.
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| 2/28/2008 11:42:15 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
huskertomboy
Hiawatha, KS
age: 51 online now!
| The packaging has never been that important... I find the contents to be so much more valuable. But I am an active person and would want my significant other to be so as well. The results of aging show on all of us eventually. I think you are a pretty young woman and that special someone will see that also.
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| 2/28/2008 2:44:09 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
cedartan
Waterloo, IA
age: 57
| > The packaging has never been that important... I find the contents to be so much more valuable. But I am an active person and would want my significant other to be so as well. The results of aging show on all of us eventually. I think you are a pretty young woman and that special someone will see that also. -huskertomboy <
Beware my Cyclones next fall, huskertomboy! It will be a tough go for your guys in Ames. . . . (smile)
Just want to chime in and say that Mind and Body are relevant, not solely Body as my comment might make it seem that I'm saying. The content is key, the package relevant.
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| 3/9/2008 12:07:31 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
catmanto
Davenport, FL
age: 22
| It is the mind I care about not the waist.
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| 3/10/2008 7:24:09 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
pluger60
Kokomo, IN
age: 61
| Love is blind, if weren't no body would get married. Every body has faults of somekind.
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| 3/10/2008 7:32:48 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
jimmy61
Titusville, FL
age: 47
| WTF is racist about waist size?
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| 3/10/2008 7:58:05 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 40
| Waist size?...hardly....Hell I got a 29 inch waist....try shopping for pants being 6'2....
For the guys.....it is cup size more often than not.....but, a pretty attitude and a smile make up for alot!!!!!
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| 3/10/2008 8:35:29 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
sugarlady
Alum Creek, WV
age: 60
| cedartan
The packaging is nice. But what is
important is what is in side.
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| 3/10/2008 8:38:07 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
shyguy198720200
Quincy, IL
age: 20
| hey when a girl sayes she wuld not date me bc im fat i just tell her but im not fat im fluffy im not saying im relly big but im not skinny either if i had to chang to get a date then id rather not date im happy with the way i look and if sum 1 tryed to make me chang it would be like dont let the door hit ya wher the good lord split ya you a butiful girl and im sur ther is sum one out ther for ya
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| 3/10/2008 8:44:16 PM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
| Just browse through the pictures on this sight. Some of the most beautiful women you'll find are overweight. Its not the size that matters, nor what other people think. Its what you think of yourself that matters. And when you're happy with yourself, everybody else will see it.
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| 3/11/2008 12:36:17 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
looking4u22
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 44
| Sometimes I can't believe what I read...the truth is we are all visual, period...But it takes times to let another really find out what one is about in all areas of life. So yes we do look at the physical part first.....but did anyone resist running into their grandmothers arms that we can't wrap our arms around? Or did any of you ladies not walk slower for your grandfather? Girl just take your time....you will find whom is right for you...if your willing to search.
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| 3/11/2008 12:54:07 AM | A question for th guys: Does size matter? Waist-wise, I mean | |
lovelady77
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 30
| and i say yes cause to me looks matter and it does to so many people but you also have to remember that it's how you feel when you look into someone else eyes. Either that other person loves the you that you love or they don't and you move on.
As long as you love you no one could love you better
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