| 2/28/2008 9:40:25 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
redeyes28
Orlando, FL
age: 28
| ok, so I am quite new to the Internet Dating world, and I have a few questions. I feel like I could be waisting time, but there are so many success stories, so i must be doing something wrong... I like my profile, because it is honest and genuine. I want to meet someone that likes me FOR ME... So i dont want to change it. So other than changing that... why am I attracting guys that just want to talk dirty? Dont get me wrong, I can be as flirty as the next girl, but shouldnt we exchange names & interest first? I mean... nowhere on my profile does it mention... hey, lets have cyber sex real quick... so why am I being approached that way? Another question... is this the right site if I am looking for something kinda meaningful? I mean... I want to find someone. I dont just want to send a wink, get a wink back... chat sometimes...and then ask if you wanna meet so we can "get it on!" I want more... help me find it people...
Im a cute chunky black girl... looking for a guy that loves me how I am, and supports me if I want to change... And I will do the same... Does that make sense? Any advice would be great! BEst of Luck everyone... in whatever you are looking for...
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| 2/28/2008 9:58:48 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
angelips
Villas, NJ
age: 32
| unfortunatly there are alot of creeps and wackos out there u just got to be careful im sure a huge percent of people on this site is looking 4 the same thing u just described so i dont think ur doing anything wrong u just havnt connected with the right person yet thats not in this site 4 sex and believe me thats hard to find a pg 13 person and not a xxxr rated one   so just keep chattin until u seem to think they have the same mindset in the conversations good luck 
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| 2/28/2008 10:10:59 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
onewildmustang
Crawfordville, GA
age: 32
| I ask the guys one very first question to the point............
"HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ARRESTED"
well let me tell you.....its an EYE OPENER for them!!!!!!!!!!!
but BUT
you would be surprised at the response ! ! !
I have met three great tru friends so far who "Fessed up"
shure they were BAD BOYS (((who's a friggen ANGEL these days lol ))
but they cleaned up their act and lived to tell about it.
It gets the ball rolling in the right direction very very very quickly!
If they don't or won't answer or wanna beat around YOUR BUSH....then girl just say..
"SEE YA---WOULDN'T WANNA BE YA"
Nuff Said!
Kathy
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| 2/28/2008 10:15:06 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
| Hang in there, finding the right one no matter what method you use takes time and you will go through those that want the quickies frequently. Ignore them or however you respond and just be patient until your soulmate comes along. You sound like a wonderful person and you deserve the best!
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| 2/28/2008 10:15:18 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
italiancop30
Folsom, CA
age: 30
| i just run the names lol
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| 2/28/2008 10:39:57 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
| Like Alex said Just don't give up woman!!!When I started on here I got lots of winks and sick emails just use the block and delete button and don't give up,Ive mad alot of great friends on here and I have met someone special and I'm hoping for the best.
Good luck to you
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| 2/28/2008 11:02:03 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
redeyes28
Orlando, FL
age: 28
| Thanks guys. You guys are sweet. I guess I should just be patient then... whats a girl to do. I love the one about asking them if they have ever been arrested!!! Love it... I won be mad if they say yes... depending on the charge... LOL! Thanks everyone... I feel much more optimistic! Good Luck with everything...
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| 2/28/2008 11:44:40 AM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
chasdude
Charleston, SC
age: 49
| Personally I would ask if you ever been convicted? Because you could have an outstanding warrant for a parking ticket. Later, if you are ever stopped for let say a headlight out, you will be arrested on the spot. Just my opinion
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| 2/28/2008 2:39:06 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| what u doing worng ur not talking me to me
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| 2/28/2008 8:18:43 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
| There are players online as well as in real life so might as well get use to it. Don't be in a rush to find a relationship. You'll end up settling and being miserable and who wants that??? Relationships take time. When you're not looking is when you'll find someone. Search too hard and you may miss them.
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| 2/28/2008 8:19:49 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| I have 1 son, he's 8 years old, and he is the love of my life
That turned me right off instantly.
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| 2/28/2008 8:20:40 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| Evileddy 
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| 2/28/2008 8:24:14 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
| Who hasnt been arrested for somethin.......back in thier day.....lemme shut up before I get in tooooo deep
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| 2/28/2008 8:25:23 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
| Never been arrested, even back in the day
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| 2/28/2008 8:43:57 PM | What am I doing wrong? I wanna get past the wink... | |
collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
age: 48
| hey southbuster, need a backhoe? you have the right to remain stupid, anything you say just might not get you laid!  
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