| 3/2/2008 9:16:43 AM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
fairlady1958
Dayton, OH
age: 50
| All n all.. I guess I am goin to follow my heart and see where it takes me... 
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| 3/2/2008 7:08:26 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
beatricet
Knoxville, TN
age: 41
| Do NOT follow your heart! It is hoping and wishing this man is the way you want him to be--not the way he really is. He has nothing to offer you but sex, and you deserve so much more, and only you can get it, because you are worth it!!
Your gut is telling you something isn't right, and deep down you know the truth, or you wouldn't be on this topic cite!
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| 3/2/2008 7:09:58 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
beatricet
Knoxville, TN
age: 41
| Also, he is saying keeping you off balance by telling you all this stuff about he's been stalked/harrassed etc. by women before in order to manipulate you.
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| 3/3/2008 5:21:12 AM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
rudt2005
Camden, OH
age: 47
| Run away quickly
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| 3/3/2008 6:12:44 AM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 45
| JMO Sounds like he's married or hiding something from you to me, If he won't tell you where he lives after 5 months & has no time, but your really interested, either have him checked out, or demand answers.......May not sound like the best advice to you, but this just sounds to fishy & nobody likes being hurt.
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| 3/3/2008 10:05:49 AM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
beatricet
Knoxville, TN
age: 41
| You must be assertive with this man--draw a line for him.
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| 3/4/2008 7:21:02 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
markiemay
Nashville, TN
age: 55
|  Been there Done this..... You want to believe him because you WANT to believe him.
My gosh, he quote, unquote, Cares enough for you to "make love" to you, then he should
trust you enough to let you into his LIFE........Girl, your not fooling any one BUT
yourself. Cut him loose and if he cares for you he will come on back and want to tell
you every thing about himself......If he doesnt then you are way better off without
him..
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| 3/4/2008 7:39:30 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 36
| Send me his name and I'll run the check for you for free. I have access to some things that will give you the answers you need.
[Edited 3/5/2008 6:27:27 AM]
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| 3/6/2008 2:43:28 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
littlebumblebee
Hamilton, OH
age: 48
| Fairlady i would be afraid hes married i would follow him to see where he lives. Because men acan be sneaky and tricky. He might be cheating on his wife
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| 3/6/2008 2:48:51 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50
| RUN, do NOT walk away from this one. There are soooooooooooo many red flags going up here it's not funny!!!!!!
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| 3/6/2008 2:53:08 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
newinil
Carlock, IL
age: 36
| Go ahead and follow your heart.. We will watch for your men are pigs thread to follow shortly.
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| 3/6/2008 3:01:10 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| WON'T TELL YOU WHERE HE LIVES! And you've been seeing this Guy for 5 months, one day a week  Honey this Guy is MARRIED What part of that don't you understand. If this Guy were on the level and really was into you,I don't care how many ex's he had that stalked him, He would have told you where he lives, you would have been over there long before now Hes MARRIED, and you are just his Night Out With The Boys, Bowling, Poker, Whatever Girl wise up....tell him to F**k Off and Die
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| 3/6/2008 3:18:27 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 40
| JMO~ If YOU really trusted the situation yourself, you wouldn't have posted this thread in the first place. Personally, I think you came here seeking approval for your own Co-Dependency issues.
What you have instead is 3 pages of folks from all over the place telling you the same thing. They are trying to be your friends and tell you how they honestly see things, because some of them have been there themselves. You asked for advice, and you have gotten it.
Bottom line.......People say they want honesty, yet when they get it, they don't want to accept it for what it is.
1.) Why did you put the post up in the first place, if you were only going to defend this sort of behavior?
2.) Why are you so hell bent on refusing to accept that things are "fishy", even when you know they are?
3.) And why are you still on a dating site after 5 months of being in a "relationship" with someone?
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| 3/6/2008 5:00:46 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 36
| Go ahead and follow your heart.. We will watch for your men are pigs thread to follow shortly.
Don't forget the "why aren't there any nice men left" and "why do men only go for looks" threads.
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| 3/6/2008 6:32:16 PM | LOVE and CO-DEPENDENCY - not tryin to push | |
outofreach
Cleveland, TN
age: 52
| if he's living with his parents, grandparents, embarrassed of his living arrangement, he STILL isn't being honest...after 5 months, thats totally ridiculous...i'm not buying it..honesty is NOT that difficult!1...
but you will do what you want to do, gonna follow your heart...and it will possibly get broken...good luck to you...
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