| 3/4/2008 5:30:08 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| I read somewhere that even when in a relationship a man will look at other women and imagine what sex would be like with them. SO I guess some feel the need to explore that further.
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| 3/4/2008 5:49:24 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
katlicata
Owensville, MO
age: 32
| If a man/woman doesn't want to commit then they probably wouldn't have been good for you anyway! And not all men are afraid of commitment some are just afraid to commit to the wrong woman!!
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| 3/4/2008 5:56:18 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 46
| and vice versa
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| 3/4/2008 6:18:25 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
annie80918
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 49
| ditto
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| 3/4/2008 12:17:05 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
geekman
Pilot, VA
age: 67
| Brit : You sound just like my ex ! She even told me if i cheated on her she would forgive me . Guess what ? she cheated on me and i didnt forgive her . She tryed to come back but NO DICE. I guess thats why i am cautious about commitment . 
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| 3/7/2008 4:49:01 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
crysto84
Sanford, NC
age: 24
| Well I am having a hard time finding women who want to commit. I want that commitment. Yes I make mistakes because I am human. But least I am willing to work and fix those mistakes. I think there are also women out there who are afraid of commitment or just enjoy the "dating game". However, I am looking for something in the forever area. I'm not having much luck.
So why is it so hard for men to commit to a good woman? The same reason why its so hard for a woman to commit to a good man.
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| 3/7/2008 5:33:26 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
lost_in_albany
Albany, GA
age: 34
| I was committed for seven and a half years, then her cheese slipped off her cracker and we got divorced. Some folks just aren't the committing kind.
No, men do not sexually rate every woman they see. We do look at women though, we are genetically designed to be attracted to the opposite sex. (Well, statistically, nine out of ten men are).
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| 3/7/2008 6:07:40 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
wanabcountrydan
El Paso, TX
age: 53
| Well, I am a good woman! What are looking for in one?
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| 3/8/2008 1:34:55 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
lesliebuck
Leesburg, FL
age: 19
| Im a bit late on this chat but i was reading the posts about good women and guys committing..i feel like i have an issue with both and people please feel free to leave comments on how you feel because i am lost...
i can honestly say i feel like i am a good woman and for the guy who keeps asking what makes you a good woman ill tell you why...im VERY open minded..i do not only like one type of guy, i date guys who weigh 105lbs i have dated a guy who has weighed almost 400 lbs..i have dated guys decked out in tattoos, i have dated guys in the yacht club, i have dated guys who wear their pants below their waists and xxl shirts because its what he likes, ive dated guys who wear wranglers, i can honestly say i look at what is on the inside because looks will fade...i will not judge you for what you like because i know that there are some weird things that i like that i dont want ppl to soley use that to judge me,(for instance my tattoos, yes i have them but it doesnt represent me as a person, ive had to explain this one to my mom, i am still the same girl that never skips school and gets staright A's)and i know how to have fun..meaning no im not a stick in the mud and wont break rules to have a good time but i know what is seriously not right to be..but i can still be crazy..back to the open minded thing is that i understand you are not perfect and you will make mistakes but when you do it the 3rd time i gotta let you go...um i also know that you are a guy and know that there are other hot women out there..go ahead look..if your at a strip club you can touch because your not going home with her but other than that just dont touch...
ok um im also a good woman because im in college i make good grades and i have goals in where i want to be in life
im very family oriented
i have manners
i have morals..its VERY hard to get in my pants(haha had to throw that one out there)
i know how to stand up for myself but i also know what is appropriate to say in certain situations to not stir up a heated argument
i accept everyone
i have a wide variety of things i like to do so i dont think i can get boring..i play all sports..i dont know im not conceided at all i actually have low self esteem but you wouldnt know it but i know that i know how to make someone happy and i know they can be happy with me..but out of all the guys i have been with there are 3 that i cared about the most that i was actually with the longest..one of 2 and a half years, one of a 1 year and one just shy of a year..and all 3 guys cheated on me! one of them did it 3 times and oh i loved him so i let it go(yes i have learned my lesson) but my point is that obviously if i liked them a lot they showed the same affection for me but how could they go and cheat and ruin everything! its so frustrating i have everything going for me in my life right now BUT the guy...and yes people if your going because you looked and saw my age is 19..shut up ok ! lol im wise for my years i promise because i moved out at an early age(but still very very close to my family) but im in college and about to be a certified firefighter with a degree i have my own place and a steady job now, and i will have a steady job when im a firefighter...so i want to be in a serious relationship to have someone to go through this good time with me, i want to share my hapiness...but the guys mess up!
and for that one guy that said oh give me ex boyfriends so i can ask them if your a good person..i can give you atleast 6 and thats who i just thought of at this moment on the top of my head..honest to god im not conceided i just know i can make a guy happy i know it, but yet they cheat on me?
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| 3/8/2008 6:29:59 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
sidman
Grand Junction, CO
age: 30
| why do women just think its them that want to commit, guys do like to commit but from my experience if the girls or women don't get the guy to summit to your angles its not gonna work. Other thing is I wanted to comment to this one girl I loved so munch however she had a medical condiction that prevented me from continuing the relationship. Bipolar, and the fact that she does not know how to live independant. Also please keep in mind that in order to find someone to commet make shure you are looking in the right place because often its you that choose a guy that wants to play, you see him with two girls at once, and the guy sitting next to you has no ladies at all or has on lady for about 6 month if he does get lucky to find one.
I could say that I am a good, guy, but the truth of that matter depends on the women and whether she thinks I am a good guy.
I do have morals, I am also mannerly most of the time, I can't say all the time as I am a guy. I do not believe a relationship is defined as jumping into someones pants. I do not believe in testing for Good or Bad sex, I want someone like me that will just be new to the whole thing, when we do. I think sex is the altimate commentment of oneself to another person so if you can't comment to live with them than why do people want to try it out before marriage?
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| 3/8/2008 6:34:53 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
fastlaneknight
Lexington, TN
age: 24
| Personally, I've been having the problem of getting a woman to commit. Most still want to just party all the dang time. I honestly have a ring in a ringbox in my car that I picked out to ask that future special person and I'll get it resized for her, whoever she is. I'm not afraid of commitment. I love it in fact.
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| 3/8/2008 6:37:12 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| i think most people are willing to commit but after a while in a relationship,you look at that person and say ....forever is a long time. then it's the grass is greener syndrome.
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| 3/8/2008 6:43:14 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
newinil
Carlock, IL
age: 36
| Personally I am totally in favor of commitment.
I have a list of people on this site alone, whom I think should be committed.
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| 3/8/2008 6:44:17 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
|  i agree new
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| 3/8/2008 11:02:41 AM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
lesliebuck
Leesburg, FL
age: 19
| so maybe its me then is what im getting from the last posts because all of you say i love commitment i want to commit i just cant find there girl..so maybe its me in the sense that im just not picking the right guys...
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