| 3/3/2008 4:49:43 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
carmel34
Matthews, NC
age: 34
| I would definitely like to know why men have a problem of committing?  Hey if you want to play the field let us know up front. Woman can play the same game too. But...I am wanting to settle down and have a little something with a good man so if there is anybody out there that can provide some info on the committement issue, halla!!
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| 3/3/2008 5:05:07 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
tommyx
Riviere-du-Loup, QC
age: 34
| Commit is a big word....
You may love a person for exactly that same reason 
It could well be a question of personality type ?
Let your hart feel it. It might not have to do at all with gender.
Cheers ! 
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| 3/3/2008 5:09:04 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Because there are so many good women out there!
Why would I limit myself to just one?
That's retarded!!!
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| 3/3/2008 5:12:21 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
carmel34
Matthews, NC
age: 34
| Well if you are not going to commit at least be honest and put all your cards on the table. You may get your cake and eat it too!!! 
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| 3/3/2008 5:13:35 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
carmel34
Matthews, NC
age: 34
| What do you want Tommyx?
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| 3/3/2008 5:17:17 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
ozarkhiker
Festus, MO
age: 67
| Are there good women out there???????????
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| 3/3/2008 5:22:05 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
carmel34
Matthews, NC
age: 34
| Hell yea it's some good woman out here!! I AM ONE OF THEM!!
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| 3/3/2008 5:24:01 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Proof?
I will require a list of references of past dates and ex-boyfriends.
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| 3/3/2008 5:43:14 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
carmel34
Matthews, NC
age: 34
| The PROOF is in the PUDDIN!
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| 3/3/2008 5:47:34 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Um...no.
The proof is in other people saying you are a good woman.
or I'll just claim to be the UNIVERSE'S BEST CUNNILINGUS MASTER OF ALL TIME!
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| 3/3/2008 5:53:41 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
age: 51
| Because a good woman knows when to commit the man   
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| 3/3/2008 5:59:28 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| Why do people categorize one gender as a whole?
Every woman or man will declare themselves good. No one is going to say, "I suck as a person, I'm bad for someone in a relationship, I wouldn't be a good mate. Everyone thinks they are good.
REALITY SAYS OTHERWISE. I'm sure you heard the saying, "one's own lies become his or her truths". My point being, a person can have lots of negatives, but in reality doesn't think anything is wrong because they have done those things for so long they are used to it. HOWEVER, other people, including dates see otherwise. They see the flaws and inconsistences. You have some good people that would make great mates and some who declare themselves good, make bad mates.
Have you ever seen the show cheaters when the person who gets busted twists the story on their mate and even some of then deny the actual footage of them cheating 
Again, what really defines a good man or woman?????????? Just because someone states he or she is good?? NO... There are plenty of single men and women who have been single for years, yet they think they are good. Of course, they will say something like, "well I have standards etc... Some have good attributes for the long run and some are only good when they want something or have an agenda  Actions personify whether a person is really good, not just talk or because someone says so. AND I'M NOT TALKING FOR THE FIRST 1-3 MONTHS. I'm talking about consistency for long term - not just to bait and hook someone. 
As far as committment with men in general not as a whole, it depends on several factors
1. AGE
2. His employment status and income
3. His current situation
4. Whether or not he really likes the female
5. Simply may not be ready to commit yet, he wants to learn more and grow with the female. REAL COMMITMENT DOESN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT.
6. Traumatic experiences in his life (i'm not talking about relationships)
It would also be good if people stop with the one gender categorizing already because not every man or woman will fit the stereotypical gender question in a post.
[Edited 3/3/2008 6:03:04 PM]
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| 3/3/2008 6:01:23 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
smitdawg1966
Greenville, SC
age: 41
| A so-called good woman is far and between these days.We now live in a world where the word commit does not apply.You have to enjoy the moment,hope for the best ,but plan for the worst.Sounds pitiful...but it is what it is.Besides,there is more to being a good women than just giving yourself a label,going to church ,etc.
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| 3/3/2008 6:13:59 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 22
| I think its just the simple fact (and this goes for both men and women) that they want to make sure it is someone they will be happy to wake up next to for the rest of their lives. Theres no reason to rush things, if you take it slow the better the outcome....get to know them before you make your decissions that way there aren't so many divorces or cheating!
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| 3/3/2008 6:17:31 PM | Why is it so hard for MEN to commit to a good WOMAN? | |
mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45
| I have no problem committing, it`s finding
a good woman that gives me the trouble. 
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