3/4/2008 3:12:09 PMI must be ugly. 

sr20_00
McAlester, OK
age: 26


I can't get a hit or a kind reply on my prof to save my life. Does it look ok? Is there a dirty spot on my pic or something?

3/4/2008 3:14:22 PMI must be ugly. 

pinkrose78
Rockland, MA
age: 29


You not ugly and to be negative is a big turn off.. try being positive and happy.

3/4/2008 3:17:33 PMI must be ugly. 

sea_wench1
Chandler, AZ
age: 55


hun your fine..get involved with the forums and check out the age groups....the more you get involved more people you will meet..gl hun..( wink ) Sea

3/4/2008 3:20:44 PMI must be ugly. 

sr20_00
McAlester, OK
age: 26


You say negative. Which part do you see as too negative or at all?

3/4/2008 10:28:52 PMI must be ugly. 

lvgwithherpes
Genoa, NV
age: 54


It does not seem that you make totaly negitive statements but there is a tone of your writing that feels like it drags me down. Concider rephrasing some of your statements. I added some comments to parts of your profile I pasted here.

Don't let my location deter you. Please read the whole profile.
( No need for this they knew whre you lived before they clicked on to see your profile.)


I have been through a lot in life and I would like to quit having some sort of drama hit me in the face every time I get things settled down.
(Bagqage warning!!)

I don't like the games that a lot of people play. Why be in a relationship if you aren't willing to work on the tough times to enjoy the good?
(Good thought but maybe just say you are no into playing games and let it go at that)



Last but definitely not least.
(Why not introduce your son first, You put the picture of him up for all to see and state weather you have full custody or weekends. Is his mom the ex from hell or do you get along for the boys sake?)
I am sure you see the little boy in the pictures. He is the ONE. Number ONE. ALWAYS and FOREVER. He will not betray me, nor forsake me. He loves me for me. He looks up to me. He depends on me. He gets what he wants. He is a very well behaved kid and I'm not being partial. I am told that all of the time. If you can't handle him then please go away.

(This sounds like there is no room in your life for a woman and they will just pass you by without a wink. A good father is a positive thing and you have stated it like a 'screw you and the ship you came in on' statement. Turn this to a caring positive invitation to be part of your sons life and yours)
This is a suggestion from a guy and if I see all of this downer stuff in here the women feel it ten times stronger and pass you by



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3/4/2008 11:47:59 PMI must be ugly. 

itsjustme276
Richlands, VA
age: 28


You are not ugly... Give it time, you'll start to meet people. =)

3/5/2008 6:07:27 PMI must be ugly. 

jewels180
Bronx, NY
age: 46


SWEETHEART,... your NOT ugly ... just give it time and have fun while your doing it .....