| 3/6/2008 10:06:53 PM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
jj197622
Fort Worth, TX
age: 32
| I have come to believe in allot of things. Such things as hanging on someones; words, greeting just because i want to feel wanted. Why do i do it? Why do i throw myself into such agony. when i want to be loved by someone so badly that ill believe every lie, and take it all the time as truth to wait patiently while they run behind my back when every nerve in my body is telling me to face the truth but I just take the stabs to the heart and become evermoreso numb . I am so tired of this...I am a decent man, sure i have my problems but who doesnt-no one 100% perfect. I am not the kind to be overbearing and controling. I try to be patient and understanding but i end up getting shited on in the end. Again I am not perfect but i have seen women hold on to way less integrity than me. I suppose i save women from myself by my upfront insecuruties.....and not waste 6 months worth their time. The average time the a relarionship lasts and when the true person reveals themselves
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| 3/6/2008 10:11:56 PM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
kitkat1204
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 49
| i know where ur coming from, i have been and i almost gave hope BUT i know there is someone out there for me. so i hanging in there-someday he will find me!!
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| 3/6/2008 10:33:33 PM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
dancingdragon
Toney, AL
age: 55
| Been there just recently,talked to this guy daily,4 or more times a day for hours.This has went on since feb 14. Him and I had all the same interests,plans for the future,it was so great, .He said all the right things and was so honest with his answers .I thought I had died and gone to heaven,here was a guy who I could really be my soul mate.We finally met this thurs,he drives truck and couldnt get a load this way.We spend one evening together,brings flowers,great time.He lives about 50 miles from me,sure we will see each other next day. I got one phone call at about 10:00 the next nite,he is leaving back out Friday .What happened between the time he left here and the next day to change his mind. ??He emails me on here to say he has some issues to take care of first. Why did he build me up and then drop me along side of the road??. ..Yes I was the fool and yes it hurts
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| 3/6/2008 11:13:54 PM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
ellezia
Crescent City, CA
age: 26
| Join the club. It just doesn't seem worth it anymore.
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| 3/6/2008 11:16:04 PM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
s83biker
Arvada, CO
age: 48
| I too have been on here, not long, but I have e-mail a few ladies....but they do e-mail back and then nothing. Whats wrong with me? Am I too Honest with them?
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| 3/6/2008 11:27:12 PM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| The idea is not to hang off their every word. Don't lose yourself in that person. Otherwise they will not be interested anymore.
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| 3/7/2008 1:13:52 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
rickls1935
Lakeland, FL
age: 72
| well, i'm going to keep waiting and hopeing and praying!
somewhere out there is a super nice lady that's tired of being alone and wants a good man!
here i am, honey! 
 come and get me!
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| 3/7/2008 2:39:23 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
sushisawesome
Troutdale, OR
age: 27
| I have just been there myself and I can tell you...it's been years since I've had feelings like this for someone....I honestly thought the lady in question was not going to flake, play games, and just be committed all the way....
I honestly felt that this one was different, knew what she wanted, and finally found that in me....instead she was affriad of a REAL RELATIONSHIP THAT IS EXSCLUSIVE and she found ways and came up with excuses to stay and be busy.....
Busy busy busy.....life, love, & happiness will pass you by if all you are is busy...
Example
Guy: Hey Cindy, want to hangout?
Girl: Oh no....I'm busy....
Guy: but it's been so long since we've seen you and it's going to be so fun everyone has
been asking about you...
Girl: oh...no...no...I'm just to busy
Guy: Busy doing what? Whats so important you can't find time for us? We miss you!
Girl: I don't know, I'm just swamped, my time is at a premium...sorry
Guy: Your loss
I will find my princess for me someday...she will be honest with me and herself....and she will know what she wants and go for it. She will put me on top of her list 100% and I will do the same for her. We all must learn to make time for the ones who are truely important. We must make our jobs work for us and not work for the job.....
That's my point of view.....
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| 3/7/2008 2:42:30 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
sushisawesome
Troutdale, OR
age: 27
| When all is said and done
You spend quality time on the job for a quality days pay
You spend quality time taking care of your house for a quality life at home in comfort
You spend quality time with your lover for a quality relationship
I dare anyone to say that this in not the truth.
I'm sure you'll all agree with me...I know it!
A relationship that is not just a fling or a one night stand is 24/7! It's everyday, on top of everything else, with everything else, and all at once, full force!
That's what I also feel is right....you do what you can...that's real..
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| 3/7/2008 2:51:26 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| i didn't give up hope. hope gave up on me! 
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| 3/7/2008 3:23:22 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
sasha_forever
Austin, TX
age: 19
| I used to want similar things.....
But I am just getting out of a three and a half year relationship and have relaised somethings
about myself and about life in general
1) relationships aren't everything
2) its good to take things slow
3) confidence in yourself is ten times more valueable than confidence in another person
4) those who are strong enough to be on their own can develop highly strong lasting relationships
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| 3/7/2008 4:26:42 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
angel_whispers
Klamath Falls, OR
age: 41
| DancingDragon, I was married to a trucker. His time and plans are not necessarily his own to schedule. I learned a long time ago not to make plans, as they rarely were able to be kept and the heartbreak was eating me up. Loads get rescheduled, a truck breaks down and someone else has to make the run, etc.
The fact that he said he has other things he needs to take care of first, seems to be a really good sign. He spent time getting to know you and didn't fall in love with just the idea of you. He met you in person, saw the real thing and decided that yes, this is worth it. Now he wants to prepare is life and remove any baggage that would get in the way for you.
I wouldn't discount him just yet.
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| 3/7/2008 4:31:41 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
jimmy61
Titusville, FL
age: 47
| That was a very nice and to the point answer, angel. To read such a positive thing first thing in the morning, really makes my day! Thank you for the smile!
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| 3/7/2008 11:23:10 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| JJ....i've known you a while now...you just need to get your self confidence back. Your last relationship is not uncommon to a lot of people on here. It was HER problem, not yours. I have a great deal of respect for what you are trying to accomplish and one day soon you will be on top of the world. You have a lot to offer someone, the RIGHT someone. Have faith and dont beat urself up too hard in the meantime. Luv ya
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| 3/7/2008 11:34:43 AM | wanting to be wanted too badly | |
littlebumblebee
Hamilton, OH
age: 47
| I know the feeling people can be so mean. If they dont want ya they should say so from the start .
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