| 3/10/2008 1:55:15 AM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| Jeez I can't even make up my mind if it was me what would I want someone to do?
I'm a live and let live sort of person and generally I don't think it's a good thing to put your face in other people's privates.
But dang on the other hand if it was me - I'd rather be told than be the moron who didn't know....
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| 3/11/2008 6:10:28 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
lamb1926chop
Nashville, TN
age: 50
| I'm all for the anonymous idea. First off- there is the health issue. Then there is the human dignity factor. If I had a cheating husband and everybody but me knew about it- not that this is the case, but I'd want to at least be on the same playing field. If the cat is out of the bag, the couple can choose to work it out and forgive or they can each move on. Some folks are into open marriages. Maybe that's the case. Who knows? But tell.
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| 3/11/2008 7:30:50 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| You will wind up in the middle of something you don't want to get into.
He'll either deny it and say you made a pass and he turned you down is why youre saying this, or she won't believe you and when she finds out she'll be too ashamed to admit she was wrong and you wind up the loser either way. No one wants to be told their the last to know, but sometimes it's better not to know, sooner or later cheater's get caught, and I hope he gets took to the cleaners. Like I always told the police, I don't know, I don't want to know, and if Iknew I wouldn't know. Even if it was the right thing to do, it could cost you more than it would be worth.Winners never cheat and Cheaters never win, sooner or later the scum floats to the top
[Edited 3/11/2008 7:31:49 PM]
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| 3/11/2008 8:08:02 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
yedjh
Syracuse, NY
age: 38
| I have some personal expirence in this. Don't get involved.
-My neighber said to me one day you know your husband comes home between 5-6 am for weeks now.
-My reply was do you think you know something I don't?
Of course I knew my husband was shackin up with some other chick.
But thanks for f===== thinkin you needed to let me know.
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| 3/11/2008 8:12:13 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
susie_seashore
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 51
| I am not sure I think you should get involved, unless you are
planning on moving. Could get uncomfortable for you if they
work it out amongst themselves. They might both get mad at you.
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| 3/11/2008 8:16:08 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 30
| You started off by saying "I am very close to my neighbors(well not that close)"
This is a great chance for you to get to know your neighbor and I dont mean by telling her what her husband is doing. Put the moves on her. What is she gonna do, tell her husband. He will probably thank you. that gives him more time to be with his girl. Go get her tiger!
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| 3/12/2008 1:13:31 AM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
magneeto
Errington, BC
age: 47
| Tell her that you bugged your phone once and got more than you expected and in the next few days she'll be buging hers probably. Personally I can't stand cheaters they hurt peaple for ever.
Now if he asked her permision because she was never there for him or her that way, then that's a different story, who knows what's going on and you may not want to look like a medler instagator.
Just try the powers of suggestion .
Radio shack bugging equipment 100 $
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| 3/12/2008 1:19:19 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
peaches1111
League City, TX
age: 55
| Well, I DID keep my mouth shut!!!! As some of you said to do!!! But he did himself in!!!! LOLOLOLOLOL And got caught!!! And it was his mother who caught him!!!
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| 3/12/2008 2:37:47 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
susie_seashore
Daytona Beach, FL
age: 51
| Hoooray! 
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| 3/12/2008 3:52:40 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| oooooooh as a mother with sons...that's a toughie - I'd sorta feel responsible.
I don't think my sons would do that...they've seen a sinle mom raise boys alone - they're respectful of women. Hell their girl's are treated like princesses!
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| 3/12/2008 3:58:54 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
tahoefreak64
South Lake Tahoe, CA
age: 44
| absolutely not,he would ve shot ME .His wife was a little machine and I was the shoulder to cry on.maybe he should ve come home from work instead of chasin everyone elses wife?
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| 3/12/2008 5:38:24 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
slim9053
Mason, OH
age: 47
| Happy , That was way out of line . What you have done could get her killed . 
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| 3/12/2008 5:45:23 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, hold upppppppppp right thereeeeeee, this post comes to a haulttttttttt, here comes the AOL queen from HELLLLLLLl, it is my anniversary of 8 years on AOL, break out the champagne although we dont have an icon, so i will take a beer. Hey happy? You fkn spermburpincumguzzlingutterwh*re. That is a no no to post someones name and address on any website whatsoever. My family has been in law enforcement for 32 years and I will have this post traced and they will cross the state border and you will be arrested. You think im joking? You try this italian byotch, and I will give you the run for your money bucko!
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| 3/12/2008 5:50:00 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| whipe the smirk off your face buddy, because you got whats coming to ya. I don't have time for games. Business comes before pleasure.
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| 3/12/2008 6:02:46 PM | Cheating neighbor.....should I tell??? | |
kay46
Quitaque, TX
age: 46
| I dont think its a good idea to post anyones address on this site unless the poster posted their own.
As for the original thread, you might bring up that your cousins husband was cheating on her and she found out by accident and went for a health checkup. see what your neighbor says. Or dont do anything, either way, youll be drug in the middle of it.
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