thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| i thought a person has a right to date whomever for whatever reasons? that doesn't make him wrong and doesn't even makes him less than a man. it's his decision.
it's a preference - perhaps he's young and don't want any kids from another man or men with a woman he dates. perhaps he deems himself a good catch, has a lot going on and looking to make his own family with the right woman. that's his preference.
some of it depends on the number of kids - if a woman has 3-4 kids by the time she's 27-28, many men don't want an already or future made basketball team. again, that's his choice. a woman has to live with it based on her decisions and actions in the first place and some shouldn't blame men for not wanting to date them with a number of children already. again, that's his choice.
some of it relates to the fact that in some cases the father is still involved and he doesn't want to deal with potential issues that may arise. in some cases there are multiple fathers. again, it's his decision to date or not date a woman in this situation. many men don't want to deal with potential drama issues and also depends on the kids ages at the time. what if the kids are spoiled, a man doesn't want to hear those dreadful words that many kids say "YOUR NOT MY DADDY"
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spyderwoman
Hamilton, ON
age: 45
| I let them know right away, its their choice and better to know now than later
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| Who's your daddy! 
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beckspade
Bentonville, AR
age: 25
| I couldnt date a woman with a child at all, and honestly I dont think there is anything wrong with me. I am honest about that and up front not saying that I dont want children in my future because I most def do, I can only speak for myself when i say I know there are things in this life I want to experience with whomever I meet and when we mutually agree to have children I hope it is after getting to know each other and know how we will be as parents. I dont think its fair you judge men as being wrong for something most are up front and honest about.
Good luck in your search in finding a man that has nothing wrong with them (man I hope you can sense that sarcasm)
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