| 3/10/2008 3:08:07 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 deanna32 Louisville, KY age: 33
| I think the big key to finding mr right or ms right for the guys is being able to let go of your hurt and trust so you dont let the good one slip away.
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| 3/10/2008 3:54:38 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
wendy001 Manchester, CT age: 36
| I hope he exists, i have so much love to give and no one to share it with 
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| 3/10/2008 3:56:28 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 big_boy_4 Hermitage, AR age: 34
| Amen sister Wendy dont feel alone
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| 3/10/2008 4:16:22 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 deanna32 Louisville, KY age: 33
| I hope so too we just have too know what we want and not settle for less.
Deanna
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| 3/10/2008 4:43:57 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 singerchick Newfane, NY age: 41
| I don't understand the mentality of someone who cheats anymore than that of a serial killer. I think it's a combination of their upbringing (or lack of) and the cumulation of their experiences. Some people cheat for the thrill of it...others do it as revenge (bad displacement of anger.)...and still others are just cold hearted.
Then there is the human side of it ...the person who really isn't a bad person, but they put themselves in a compromising situation and give in to temptation. Not that it makes it right, but it is more understandable than the habitual cheater.
Sometimes it seems like you are the last faithful person out there...many of us think that. But that's what is cool about this place. It gives us an opportunity to see that there are others that share our values...too bad so many are so far away. Lol...
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| 3/11/2008 3:17:53 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
wendy001 Manchester, CT age: 36
| Your right. Sometimes i do feel like the last faithful person out here. I like these forums because it shows that men also have feelings and do hurt just like me. I dont know why my ex cheated. He did have anger issues and he did like thrills so maybe your right maybe hes just messed in his head and gets off on it. I mean he cheated on the woman he is married to already. No matter how good you are to him, he has to cheat. I know deep down inside i am better off without him. He was a bad person. He always makes himself out to be the victim. Has anyone ever met someone like that? They are the victim and they can never smile just complain? Every day it was his back, his head, his heart, his leg every dam day! Geez! LOL 
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| 3/12/2008 1:38:54 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 easytobeme03 Springfield, OH age: 40
| i feel ya wendy. my ex was the ( victim ) too but she is the one who cheated AND could smile about it !!!
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| 3/13/2008 10:44:34 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
schianna Eugene, OR age: 34
| As long as you refuse to take a long, hard look at your own mistakes, nothing will change.
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| 3/14/2008 12:38:48 AM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 easytobeme03 Springfield, OH age: 40
| hey schiana im sorry but your comments , your opinion they may be, are pretty dark and bleak! I really hope that isnt your true outlook on life and love.
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| 3/14/2008 9:25:34 AM | why does it seem to be.... | |
blonde73fairy Clarksville, TN age: 35
| Why is it a woman changes her life for a man, has his babyies, devotes her whole life to him and then he leaves her for another girl. A size 5. I tried to lose weight, tried to make him happy and nothing. 
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| 3/14/2008 9:30:47 AM | why does it seem to be.... | |
blonde73fairy Clarksville, TN age: 35
| I know my point has nothing to do with your question.
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| 3/14/2008 12:48:09 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 easytobeme03 Springfield, OH age: 40
| actually in a way it does. its all part of 2 people loving each other for real. There are things that happen in peoples life that causes them to change in some way. If 2 people are REALLY in love with each other and devoted to each other then i believe they would deal with whatever changes come along and continue their life together
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| 3/14/2008 1:23:23 PM | why does it seem to be.... | |
 singerchick Newfane, NY age: 41
| ...now for us all to just find that right person who believes the same things...Ohio isn't all that from me 
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