| 3/15/2008 8:06:24 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
polishprincs
New Castle, PA
age: 38
| I'd be happy to find an equal. I'm having difficulty finding someone here in PA.
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| 3/15/2008 8:07:32 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
| well said sel
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| 3/15/2008 8:08:21 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 45
| polish you keep looking most guys are looking to put a notch in there bed post and if you can't find one there come to florida and bring your bathing suit
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| 3/15/2008 8:29:07 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
firstlight
Strasburg, VA
age: 48
| Now I am not going to say this is the reason but just throwing it out there for consideration:
So many threads are started about nice guys finishing last, why don't men/women like heavier men/women?, why do men/women date younger?, why do women only want men with money?, why are guys only interested in Barbie?, and on and on.
Is it possible that these things, though true in many instances, are simply excuses for not finding what we are searching for? Isn't it easier (for example) to blame all the guys for being a** holes than to wonder why I always attract a**holes?
Isn't it easier to sit back and whine that women don't like you because you are a self proclaimed nice guy then it is to be assertive, send some emails, or winks, smile at the cute girl in line at the grocery store, ask about that friend of your best friends girlfriend, or date that nice quiet girl you haven't even noticed because you are so preoccupied with all the women that are dating a** holes?
Maybe?
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| 3/15/2008 8:31:48 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| hey folks. s it possible that nice guys can sometimes b jerks. and visa versa. nice guys don't finish last unless they want to. in the end, they usually find a great lady, and everything works out for the best. for the "jerks", they either get what they deserve, or, they realize the errors of their way, make the changes, and move on. for the ladies, if all u date r jerks. maybe the problem isn't them. maybe it's time to look inward, and find out what's wrong or missing within yourself. whether through frineds, family, counseling, books, whatever! bottom line. we're all human, and no one is perfect. it's a constant evolution to make oneself better, and to grow as a person. best of luck for one and all. JMO
BTW my fav book right now is: F oprah, b*tch don't live 'round here, by bud weiser!
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| 3/15/2008 8:33:23 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
brneyes74
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
| Hmm, nice guys. Do they really exist? In my experience, they've mostly been wolves dressed in sheepskin. However, if they really do exist, I'd like to know where..The only thing that I can do is protect myself until that day a true,decent man actually comes around for real. Never know, maybe even pigs will fly!
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| 3/15/2008 8:34:28 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
| Good point firstlight! The common denominator in all of my relationships is ME. So, I have to look at my responsibility in the relationship and determine what draws me to the same type of men.
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| 3/15/2008 9:49:13 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
moviechick19
San Angelo, TX
age: 20
| Well from my opinion its all got to do with the Beauty and the Beast theory. Basically what it means is that girls want to go for the "bad boy" and change him into the nice/caring/Prince Charming type of guy, the problem is; it doesn't work and the girls always get their heart broken. They don't however stay away from the "bad boy" because they still want him to change deep down and it always ends in heart break.
This leads to the genuine nice/caring/Prince Charming guys to get their hearts broken because they are waiting around for the girl who happens to be with the "bad boy". The problem with all of this is the girl won't realize her mistake until it is too late when the genuine nice/caring/Prince Charming guy has been turned evil/bitter when it comes to love/dating. It also leads to the women that know how to treat a nice/caring/Prince Charming guy right, to give up on love because they know better then to be with a "bad boy" and they know that they want a nice/caring/Prince Charming. Problem for those girls is that the nice guys that are left are already taken, OR they have been turned bitter against love/dating because they have been waiting around on the girl with the "bad boy".
This is why I personally believe that girls go for the bad boy.
*For the record it ticks me off because I'm apart of the second group of girls who don't want a bad boy, and want a nice guy. And those other girls ruin it for all of us who know how to treat a guy.*
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| 3/15/2008 9:52:59 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
darrelslookn4u
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 47
| Bless You, moviechick19 !
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| 3/15/2008 11:06:42 AM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
gunshy1
Hot Springs National Park, AR
age: 41
| They run to slow.
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| 3/19/2008 9:23:20 PM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
lastchance620
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 44
| I think Sel - you're just too cool Sel and Drummrman said it best....
You have to really know yourself - 
we teach people how treat us  dr phil said that one
but i like the last post - that was just funny "because they donn't run fast enough," lmao
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| 3/19/2008 9:26:32 PM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42
| nice guys tend to be a bit boring
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| 3/19/2008 9:35:11 PM | Why do nice guys always finish last? | |
jfunkryan
Bargersville, IN
age: 22
| Girls who go for bad guys, who are looking for a challenge, are stupid. There are enough challenges in life, your partner/teammate shouldn't be one right from the beginning.
I notice that the most mature girls, who go through some sort of s***, are less inclined to get a guy who will put them through s***.
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