| 3/10/2008 12:24:09 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
shorty76
Evansville, IN
age: 32
| really truley are there any good guys left out there i am havin a hard time finding one
| | 3/10/2008 2:14:29 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
splitlicker
Stockbridge, GA
age: 44
| <-- good guy here
| | 3/10/2008 2:17:30 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
thundergod405
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 29
| im here even though the statement good guys finish last applies
| | 3/10/2008 2:26:56 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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| | 3/10/2008 2:39:09 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
babygirl63
Holden, MO
age: 44 online now!
| why are ya so far off
| | 3/10/2008 2:41:36 AM | where are all the good guys? | |
thundergod405
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 29
| because i was driving thru one day and got a flat tire on my way to mo.
| | 3/10/2008 3:18:39 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
sr20_00
McAlester, OK
age: 26
| <----raises hand. The question is all about perceptions and personal preferences though.
| | 3/10/2008 3:23:59 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
emesoog
Hartselle, AL
age: 49
| Right here in hartselle al.
| | 3/10/2008 3:39:34 AM | where are all the good guys? | |
shorty76
Evansville, IN
age: 32
| well thanks i am sure they are around but they are few and far between and i am havin a hard time findin one around here these days
| | 3/10/2008 4:15:35 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
musicman_zzz
Decatur, AL
age: 40
| Where are all the good guys?
I'll tell ya. A " lot " of the good guys, are sitting back, with what "dignity" we have "left", comtemplating "why", a " lot " of women, "say" that they "want" a "good-guy", when in "reality", all they( good-guy seeking women ) are going to do once they "get" us, is cheat on us with the "bad-guys". Women say they want a "good-guy", but yet, they can't seem to "handle" being treated "good"... DUH------ I guess you're so use to being treated that way, that you can't accept someone who will be good to you, and "that" is so very "S A D" !!!
You "want" us, but when you "have" us, you screw us over, time and time again. It's almost like you would rather "be with" someone who is going to treat you like Sh-t, use you as a damn "punching-bag", talk bad about you to all of their friends, hide things from you, etc.etc.,blah, blah, blah......
I "personally", just can't fathom "Why" a lot of "women", want men to be so bad to them. "Some" of you "MUST LIKE" men to beat the crap out of you, or treat you like a piece of "shit". Now I know most of you will say,,"that's b/s, but really now, sit down and think "real-DEEP" about it; Have you ever "had" a "good-guy" ? If you answer "yes", then why aren't you still with them? If you have a "true", "good-guy", then "more than likely", "he" will at least "not" cheat on you, because "true" good guys, actually "C A R E" ABOUT "YOUR-FEELINGS", so ( for the "most" part ) you can't use "cheating" as an answer. "Good-guys", treat "most" people with "respect", "kindness", and "appreciation", so It would be somewhat "hard" for me to believe that- " well, he didn't treat me right, or good", "he CHEATED on me", he called me names, he hides his feelings( or information,etc.etc.) Because I know a lot about how so called "good-guys", treat "people". I'm one of them; but we get tired of falling for someone who "says" they "want" us, but "act" in a different fashon, and insult our feelings, pride, and intelligence. So, in Essence, If you "had" a "good-guy", and "lost" him, then 9 times out of 10, you deserved losing him. And he "surely" was better off "without" someone who is "FAKE and FLAKE".
It no wonder "some" of you can't seem to find us... You can't open you eyes, OR HEART.
Most of the time, we are right here under you nose, but in order to "see" us, you will have to take your "head out of the CLOUDS."
Z
| | 3/10/2008 4:48:47 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
shylywilling
Medford, OR
age: 47
| Chuckle. Dirty rotten scoundral here.
| | 3/10/2008 5:18:35 AM | where are all the good guys? | |
mrmindcandy
Martinsburg, WV
age: 46
| I don't agree with everything you said musicman, but some parts are very true. (atleast for me). My experience with being a "nice guy" is women look at it as a weakness. I think they do want the "badboy" guy. And yes, like most "nice guys" I have been taken advantage of also. I know, I know, "your only a victim if you allow yourself to be a victim", and thats true. When you try to put your heart and soul into a relationship, money and monetary things don't mean a thing to me. You see, thats the problem though, it means a lot to the women I.ve been with. I can hear it now,"you just found the wrong women" or any of a dozen other cliches' I've read here at DH. I hope I don't sound bitter, because I really am not. I am just disappointed at how everyone is looking for that "nice guy" or "gentleman", and like Musicman said, we're right here. (we might live to far away, but we're here) 
| | 3/10/2008 5:22:40 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
virgogidget
Queensland
Australia
age: 53
| Music
Im sorry that you feel that way.
I only let Goodguys in my life.
Both genders have bad apples
| | 3/10/2008 5:23:01 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
friendshiponly
Higginsville, MO
age: 47
| mrmindcandy got it right. They all live too far away! At least three states......
| | 3/10/2008 5:55:11 AM | where are all the good guys? | | 
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54 online now!
| They're somewhere trying to recover from the last one who said they wanted a good man and then when they got him, walked away to their next conquest I'm afraied that where a lot of the good women are too
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