shrtncrzy
Gorham, ME
age: 40
| why have children if you are going to kick them out.
I am going through the courts right now to get full rights to a 16 year old girl (my daughters friend)
Her mother threw her out 2 weeks ago and she has been living with me.I have even talked with the mother and she says that she cant deal with her anymore and wants nothing to do with her.
I have no legal rights as of yet so she cant be transferred from her school to my daughters,so she hasnt been in school.
But she is getting therapy because I feel she needs it,no matter what the cost is.
This girl is no trouble at all....she helps around the house,is very polite and is very lovable.
what has this world come to these days....everything seems to be disposible.....if its not working throw it away instead of getting it fixed,if you dont like it throw it out and buy something different,if you dont want to be a parent anymore just kick them out. WTF
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witchiepoo
East Hampton, CT
age: 48
| Until you have lived in that mothers shoes do not judge her. I have found that our own children act much differently with other people than thier own family. Thank God that child has you to go to. Good luck to you and thanks for being there for the girl. 
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daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| I have a grandson who has been in 2 boot camps, juvie, and kicked out of every school he's gone to. He's 15, his mother has spent her self in ot the poor house trying to help with shrinks, counselors, the whole eight yards. I about a year and a half he'll be 17, I'm going to his birthday party and when its over I'm kicking his ass out of the house.
No matter what you do some people are not gonna grow up and do right till they get run over by a train called reality, and if you continue to shelter them, you just enable them to run over people. So it finally comes down to tuff love.
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witchiepoo
East Hampton, CT
age: 48
| I was thinking I was the only person who thought these things.
just glad the girl is not on the street ......YET!!
[Edited 3/16/2008 8:57:30 AM]
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shrtncrzy
Gorham, ME
age: 40
| I could kind of understand if the child was in trouble all the time,and was a troublemaker,and hasnt learned from his/her mistakes.
This girl is a straight A student and is very quiet.she has never been in trouble and her mother has just given up on her completely.
In this situation I feel like it is the parent with the problem not the child that is the problem.
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witchiepoo
East Hampton, CT
age: 48
| Just remember.. there is always 3 sides to a story. Good luck but be careful with what ever you decide to do.
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rockcil
Rockland, ON
age: 52
|  Thank you for taking care of her.There is to much childrens kick out from there parents home and live on the streets.May God keep you safe and the child to.Sending you all my best,God love you and your family.Take care now. We don't have enough people like you around.
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sumbeach777
Red Springs, NC
age: 45
| No mother can ruin a child, If that was the case then I'd been a wh*re, and a drug dealer. Not that my mother was one, we are taught right from wrong, its up to us to live by those rules, its the kids that think they don't have to, its not the mother, it the hard headed kids that do what ever the hell they want, and to hell with rules...
So if this Girl, has did things to her mother then Im sure she is tired as I am, Ive did all I can for my son, and now thank God he finally realized that he was messing up .
And is back to the son I've always new he was, It takes time, don't judge this women she is the Mom not you, And lets hope you don't find out just why she did what was needed to get that CHILD under control. Your good and helping out, but your not her mother, she is.
Your not looking through her eyes, your looking through yours, LIVE and learn, JMO.... beach
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