| 3/16/2008 2:11:53 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
jmg1615
Pinson, AL
age: 42
| Would you date and/or marry someone who could no longer have kids if you as a female had none of your own?
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| 3/16/2008 2:26:52 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
| There are many couples that are into the *couple* life...
do not loose hope....many people have careers, and do not plan children..
Have fun on DH
Wine
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| 3/16/2008 4:18:50 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
jmg1615
Pinson, AL
age: 42
| Thanks for your input. I have only noticed this to be an issue with women in either their late 20's or early 30's. Some have said that having kids in not a serious issue, just to later find out that is not totally true. However, given my age I personally do not want to have more kids given that I have three of my own, and one who will most likely be giving me a grad baby in the next year or so.
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| 3/16/2008 4:26:44 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
| I have a sister and 2 gf's in their forties, no kids, don't want any,
no regrets. My sister has cats though.
Emmy's post reminded me of something: when I was about 22, I briefly dated a man
about 30ish, he was raising 3 wonderful children, age 3, 5, 7. I adored his children.
He wanted to get married, and said there was always room for more children, but even
in spite of that, I chose to end the relationship instead because I knew that I was simply
not ready to commit to a whole family, and didn't think I could do justice to being a
good mother yet to these deserving little children.
It was not a good or a bad decision, it just was; and I had to live with that.
Point being, it depends on each young woman you are planning to be involved
with - some will want children, and some will forego that decision. It isn't cut and dried - varies per individual.
[Edited 3/16/2008 5:40:07 PM]
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| 3/16/2008 5:27:42 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
emmycoe
Hanson, KY
age: 30 online now!
| this is tough....
i don't know that i could.
i want to have babies someday...
so...the man that i'm with...would have to share that desire also. if i really really fell for him...i suppose i could compromise somehow...but it would be very difficult for me.
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| 3/16/2008 5:43:14 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
| Yes, I never wanted children and group of my friends feel the same if I'm dating someone who has children I fine with that ,I just prefer to spoil my nieces & nephews..JMO
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| 3/16/2008 5:45:44 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
| I do want kids sometime in the future but yes I would except the fact if we couldn't....you can always adopt
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| 3/16/2008 6:30:53 PM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
irparis39
New York, NY
age: 48
| I can't have children, but love children, so if he had them that would be fine. If he had them and wanted to a adopt, that would be fine too.
If he didn't or couldn't, that would be just as good as at this point in my life, I'm good with just us two.
Paris
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| 3/17/2008 3:00:39 AM | This question is more for women without kids of their own | |
jmg1615
Pinson, AL
age: 42
| Again, I would like to thank you from your input and words of encouragement. Emmycoe given that your response hits closest to my original question, how would you suggest approaching and/or addressing this issue? 
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