| 3/18/2008 8:20:10 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
onefunguy30
Twin Falls, ID
age: 30
| | 1. Him to her. | | 2. Her to him. |
I'm willing to move but if I found someone willing to move here would be nice also.
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| 3/18/2008 8:24:58 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
goodforfun51
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 53
| The situations are too vast to answer so easily to either. Kids, most time cant move due to court orders etc.
Jobs or positions are not always available for the other to move so easily
Family situations sometimes cause disallow such easy solutions as you had asked...
etc, etc, etc...
NO easy answer either way really.
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| 3/18/2008 8:29:30 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| goodforfun51 is correct. There is no easy answer. For me, I have no problem relocating. I think it's entirely up to the 2 people involved. A few refuse to move for whatever reason which to me shows that love has limits. For me, love should have no limits
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| 3/18/2008 8:40:28 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| Some jobs are just not relocatable. So what do you do if the man is the breadwinner in the family and he absolutely loves his woman, and he says honey, this job is one heck of a good paying job. I will not get this job nowhere else. I could find you the same work down here. What about kids? The schools? Family? These are all tough choices to make, so hard to adapt to..but yet the woman could be the breadwinner too, but i always like to see it the other way around. Im old fashioned like my mom and dad is.....my father is head of household and he brings home the money. A mans home is his castle and it is up to him to provide for his wife and children, and if the woman wants to work, that is her every right to make ends meet and become a family....it is a difficult choice to make, especially when there are so few good men left.
[Edited 3/18/2008 8:41:59 PM]
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| 3/18/2008 8:40:43 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
| Once my son finishes school... Love has no limits for me. I would move, but I'd keep my house for my kids, they could live here and whenever I wanted to come back to SA I'd have a place to stay!! 
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| 3/18/2008 8:44:25 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Who has the best job and availability to market themselves in the others area, there is no answer to the question but get together and decide that pro and cons of both situation. And if they are young pick the central location that is equally farest from each others in-laws and move there.
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| 3/18/2008 8:54:06 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
onefunguy30
Twin Falls, ID
age: 30
| this isn't about situations just who should be responcible for moving. All other things aside. Not getting stuck on situations. People I am talking about the fact you found THE ONE online now who should move him or her.
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| 3/19/2008 12:23:22 AM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| depends on the situation.
i'd think it would be a mutual decision.
things to consider would be kids, economics, what benefits the relationship the most and costs it the least.
best thing would probably be both of you relocate to some beach on a caribbean island.. but i guess that wouldn't be too practical.
situation aside i don't think any book on etiquette has addressed this.. so your probably blazing new ground here.
maybe a coin toss?
[Edited 3/19/2008 12:26:57 AM]
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| 3/19/2008 3:50:15 AM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 57
| only in mycircumstance(blew this one)lol, tho, I am to set in what I do to make a living.So its to late in my life to change now.
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| 3/19/2008 7:23:20 AM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
be382936
Thunder Bay, ON
age: 47
| I would move. I have family here, in town, but since my divorce was granted, I am itching to see more of Canada!
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| 3/19/2008 7:56:32 AM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
babygirl63
Holden, MO
age: 44 online now!
| i would relocate. i like a challange and adventure
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| 3/19/2008 8:13:54 AM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
darrelslookn4u
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 47
| Turn in the opposite direction
"And run like hell"
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| 3/29/2008 3:51:31 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 47
| Yes I would move. If I met a man that I loved moving isnt a issue at all. In fact I have no issue's at all. Therefore nothing to stop the process.
You asked who would be responcible for moving. That would be ..who ever can.
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| 3/29/2008 4:46:18 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
| If it were TRULY serious, I would be willing to relocate. But it is situational for each person and their economic situation.
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| 3/29/2008 5:15:27 PM | If you find someone online should he move to her or vice versa? | |
ladyofvictory
Madison, IN
age: 55
| Who ever can move logically. always heard it said if you meet someone online and then you meet in person and find you are compatable, it is a good idea to move nearby so that you can date and really get to know that person. is it worth the risk to move? i would think so. but at my age, i have no obligations to small children and i am fortunate enough to have a job that i can take with me. it is a big step not to be taken lightly.
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