3/23/2008 4:41:15 PMOk, I Think I Need Help 

carnationpurple
McMinnville, OR
age: 52


I really don't know what to put in the profile section. I think one way, but it comes out another way. As everyone, I have my likes and dislikes, lots of hobbies and such. I very seldom get bored, and like to keep busy, and as we get older, that's best.
It's a lot easier to talk to someone in person, and we usually know if we like them or not in the first few minutes. Getting someones attention on line, can be hard. I myself, don't lie, but there's plenty that do, just to get you to go out with them. I can tell who's real or not.
Writing about me is hard. I don't want to sound boring on my profile. Any hints fro my profile, would help. I would really love to meet someone in my area, but I only seem to attract from far away, or ones that are old enough to be one of my kids. MOst people I know, are either my kids friends, or are married. I'm a widow, so after a few years, friends became less, as I had no one do do things with anymore. A lot of single people without kids, hang out with like. Mine are now grown up, and I feel weird thinking about dating again, yet excited. Been a long time since I went on a real date. Blind dates aren't worth it.
Any advise on anything above, would help me a lot.

3/23/2008 5:38:47 PMOk, I Think I Need Help 

lee2719
Crown Point, IN
age: 45


hi carnation, you did a nice job describing yourself above. Just be yourself and write a short profile about your interests, likes, and personality. You can always add more later. Good luck

3/23/2008 5:49:49 PMOk, I Think I Need Help 

trance08
Boulder, CO
age: 44


yep, hold on, you are in for one heck of a ride.

What is attractive to me in a profile?
Short and sweet, I want to get to know you through
conversation and interaction. The profile is the
open door.

3/23/2008 5:53:56 PMOk, I Think I Need Help 

l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 45


I agree with trance,short and sweet. It's all about just making yourself visible. You'll catch someones eye and the fact that your profile isn't overloaded gives a person a chance to get to know you by emails and chats and eventually phone conversations.