| 3/26/2008 12:03:38 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| A person who is married and is on a dating site for singles tells me that they have issues in their relationship. Why would someone need to chat with strangers on a dating site when they have a significant other??? Obviously they are bored in their current situation and need some entertainment by being on a website.
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| 3/26/2008 1:51:17 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
rlynn_1
Hedgesville, WV
age: 39
| so what if they are married.if they are married and it says that in their profile then there is no deciet.
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| 3/26/2008 2:42:38 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
shenandoahgirl
South Burlington, VT
age: 52
| It really doesn't phase me.I'm glad they are open to the fact that they are married
that weeds them out right there for me.I can't help but feel sorry for their wifes and I'm not interested in getting to know them.
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| 3/26/2008 5:49:17 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
38special1
Rolla, MO
age: 47
| hi gang,
under status it states:single/married/separated/divorced/widowed
what about gals/dudes with other????omg DON"T SAY(honest answer)(calm) realize why some member choice this category... none of other status apply to live-in guest.
are they going to take time to fill out profile correctly?
scary. when you find out your date.
has live in gf...   
why don't they mark MARRIED status????
who real dumb ass? DON"T ANSWER that...
[Edited 3/26/2008 5:55:52 PM]
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| 3/26/2008 6:39:53 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| I believe in honesty but many don't. If they want to play the field they are gonna do it no matter what. But for those of us who are interested in dating and who are single it would be nice to know the difference as one can't tell unless we go to each and every profile. I always thought it would be nice to see a specific icon next to our name for what ever we had clicked on the profile. Maybe a smiley face or something, red for married blue for available etc. Just a thought.
[Edited 3/26/2008 6:41:16 PM]
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| 3/26/2008 7:20:30 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
| I agree with chopperbabe 100%!
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| 3/26/2008 8:22:04 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
cincin3500
Lapeer, MI
age: 36
| Sitka-
"Somehow I think that would be a great loss to the boards since sometimes I think their imput is so powerful and helpful."
I totally agree with you and it only took 40 some replies, from the threads start, to finally get someone to say it, without coersion. 
Well said
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| 3/26/2008 8:59:35 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Long distance relationships sometimes fizzle. I know I've been in a few before. After 4 months of chatting, meeting, messaging, phone calls, etc just one day poof he doesn't respond, he doesn't call, no more chatting, etc. Come to find out he went back to his X wife who had left him to be with her lover. He took her back. I decided that I wasn't gonna be in that same situation again. Once we are a couple (living in the same household, same state, have the same area code) I will have no reason to be on a dating site.
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| 3/27/2008 5:54:50 AM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
kenb5b01
Northport, WA
age: 44
| I have to agree with much of what has been said from almost everybody.
~ chopperbabe ~ I like your straight forward and direct approach. However, they option to select "Married" is there. I personally enjoy the discussion of people in the forums, your own input is appreciated by many of us out here and would be missed.
But for those of us who are interested in dating and who are single it would be nice to know the difference as one can't tell unless we go to each and every profile.
Interesting thought... But how would one know if they were interested in dating another without ever going to their profile? Which brings to mind; "Married" is pretty easy to understand isn't it?
I guess we each have to evaluate it for ourselves. There are several married people on here who I appreciate and would hate to see them leave. Although if the rule was that married people "had" to leave, I reckon there are a few I would like to see gettin hitched.
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| 3/27/2008 5:56:53 AM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
| Why can't married people look for someone new ? They have bad relationships too.
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| 3/27/2008 7:10:56 AM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
red61
Denver, CO
age: 61
| My guy and I are living together and plan to be married in Dec. We put in our profiles that we are together and also posted in success stories. I have not found another site that has so many good forums and groups. I do not wish to look for another one simply because I am in a relationship as long as I am honest and announce it.
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| 3/27/2008 7:28:20 AM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
1juliaper
Elk Park, NC
age: 41
| red61 Julia
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| 3/28/2008 5:58:28 AM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
iamnumber5
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 49
| This is a good thread so true
I have invested time and emotions on a few that listed themselves as single and or divorced but are truly married
I think it is so wrong I invested time, money, emotions, and even a huge move to get away for me to be divorced. I have been divorced for a long time before deciding to go on to a dating site after being single.
How dare do people that are still married, seperated, soon to be devorced even think about going on a dating site I think it is just plan rude and ignorant. JMO But it makes me so pissed off.
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| 3/28/2008 7:05:06 AM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 56
| I dont think about married DH members
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| 3/28/2008 8:44:08 PM | What do you think about married DH members? | |
thornyramathorn
Los Angeles, CA
age: 44
| I blocked you Cincin
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