| 3/26/2008 8:11:25 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
lrbear
Hickory, NC
age: 23
| i need advice on how to let a this girl subtly know that i am interested in her....i'm not quite sure how to approach this...we're co-actors in a play..she's extremely intelligent and completely gorgeous...i do catch her lookin at me alot when i do glance her way and then she quickly turns away...sometimes that can be taken as a sign of interest. However, she has taken a vow of no dating or anything for a whole year...AND her ex is comin to see her when our play opens....HELP PLEASE!!!
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| 3/26/2008 8:23:15 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Sort of sounds she is still into her X.
Just play it cool around her and be yourself. Maybe she will see that you are a cool guy and start liking you more.
Definitely show a bit of interest in her. She has to know how you feel about her.
Hell, Maybe just go talk to her. Ask her out on a date. If she says yes, don't push to hard. You don't want her to think you are like all the other guys out there. You know, just after sex.
P.S. Don't take my advice. I'm a 44 year old single guy! Just think about it and develop your own plan. Some times you HAVE TO CHASE WHAT YOU WANT or IT WILL PASS YOU UP! Go for it! Good Luck!
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| 3/26/2008 8:24:55 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
comes2please69
Tyler, TX
age: 29
| Dutch great point...sounds like she is still interested in her X....ignore her....sounds like head games...She is a dime a dozen...If it is her "X" why is he coming to the play????
When im through with someone ..Im done..I wash my hands and walk away...Just be yourself and find someone else that isnt still stuck on there x..JMO
[Edited 3/26/2008 8:39:19 PM]
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| 3/26/2008 8:29:05 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
ariesera
Roswell, NM
age: 58
| Take a chance and make the first move. Just walk up to her and strike up a casual conversation with her and find something to compliment her on. It may be a necklace she is wearing or just the way her smile captured your attention. Don't use any of those phony pick-up lines. Just be yourself. If she is interested in you, she will reciprocate. Don't try to be someone that you are not just to impress her. If she is interested in you, it will be for who you are now. Best of luck!
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| 3/26/2008 8:29:07 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
| Dutch has a good suggestion even if he is a single guy 
Be yourself and if you see an opportunity ask her out to lunch or something similar. Good luck !
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| 3/26/2008 8:44:00 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
74nova
Underwood, ND
age: 23
| dutch had a very good point about YOU HAVE TO CHASE WHAT YOU WANT OR IT WILL PASS YOU BY.
I would have said, IF YOU DON'T TAKE THE CHANCE, HOW WILL YOU EVER KNOW. I look back and regret not taking the chance but it hurts when you dive into the pool and theres only a foot of water in it. I'd say just make it obvious that your interested but not scary obvious, you don't want to spook her. It's kinda like hunting, you sit, call, and wait for the game to come in closer. The interested ones will come. If she is interested, which it sounds like she already is, just go talk to her. Either way, I would go talk to her, then you will only know for sure.
The ex coming to the play might just be a friend thing. That does happen sometimes. They may still have feelings for eachother. But since she's checking you out, there is room/option for you in her life/to get to know you better to see where things may go.
Thats about the best I can do for now. If I knew more or could asses the situation/situations more I could tell you more.
Good luck, 
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| 3/26/2008 8:55:48 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
owensborogirl2
Owensboro, KY
age: 44
| Be yourself and go for it. Or you will never know if whe does care for you...Good luck
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| 3/26/2008 8:58:24 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| How far into her "year" is she? 
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| 3/26/2008 9:24:13 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
cozzykitten_383
White Cloud, MI
age: 38
| iff she wanted you she wold be with you but tell her how you feel see iff she is still in love with some one other than you that will tell you to be hapy or step back and look some were else
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| 3/26/2008 11:01:29 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
s83biker
Arvada, CO
age: 48
| Just ask her out for a coffee or a drink. Just be yourself and don't get to heavy
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| 3/26/2008 11:03:56 PM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
yummyballs75
Las Vegas, NV
age: 29
| Look bro keep it cool be her friend give her the respect for her wishes and let her know that when she is ready to go out on a date you would like to take her thats it simple to the point
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| 3/27/2008 2:44:07 AM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Sometimes you can say more by saying nothing all. Damn I wish I'd learn to take my own advice.
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| 3/27/2008 3:15:59 AM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
mosplace
Boulder City, NV
age: 46
| Now saying she is waiting a year to date again. do talk to her and tell her when she is ready you would like a date with her (you might be able to get a call faster with a breakfast,brunch,lunch date than dinner)give her your number and let it go. sorry you will have to wait for her. As for her ex you do not state how long they were together they night have split as "just friends" some couples do that! Do they have children? It does not always mean they are still in love they might just still care about each other "as friends"
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| 3/27/2008 3:23:30 AM | advice NEEDED for confused guy!!! | |
mosplace
Boulder City, NV
age: 46
| so you think grn
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