| 3/27/2008 3:39:12 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
countryman08
Mansfield, OH
age: 42
| Okay. Been a while for me. I met a woman through my cousin and we're going out tomorrow night. Not really nervous about it, but a little unsure of myself. She is an attorney and very well known here in town. She has a whole different life and set of friends than what I do.....I'm in construction so...
Ok..so maybe I am nervous...lol...should I bring flowers? Do most women like that on the first date or is that too pushy??
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| 3/27/2008 3:40:30 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
blondechick37
Industry, PA
age: 37 online now!
| first off good luck to ya
and sure bring her flowers that is always a nice thing to do
and it shouldnt matter what you do hun for a living
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| 3/27/2008 3:41:03 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
hanoverjoe
Harrison, MI
age: 53
| Yes,bring flowers.Hand picked
if you can find them.Good luck.
Enjoy,have fun,be yourself.
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| 3/27/2008 3:42:04 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 46
| Country man... I do like flowers... I think that would be nice...Nice to hear you have a date... have fun, be yourself and enjoy the date....
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| 3/27/2008 3:42:50 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
second_chances
Chillicothe, OH
age: 41
| I don't know why you're even worrying...this woman's lucky to have you taking her out. The flowers are a nice touch.
And I happen to think guys in construction are pretty hot. 
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| 3/27/2008 3:43:48 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
wkg
Merrifield, VA
age: 54
| Countryman;get ready,take the flowers,relax,and be yourself;you'll do fine.You're a nice person;relax and don't worry.Have a great time.
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| 3/27/2008 3:47:58 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
sweetbabeblues
Hannibal, MO
age: 52
| Bring yourself, with a smile on your face, and the thought that something good will happen....... A single flower never hurt though.......neither does a small cuddly teddy bear..........
Good luck...you seem to be a great guy, and will do just fine.......
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| 3/27/2008 3:51:36 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
countryman08
Mansfield, OH
age: 42
| Thanks all - just been a while and I'm still unsure of myself. Messy divorces will do that to you I guess. I just didn't want to come across as pushy.
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| 3/27/2008 3:53:44 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
im_vika
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
| Countryman, don't worry...Just be yourself and have fun getting to know her...From what I've seen you say here in the forums, you are a great man. Let her see that personality...And believe me, she is just as nervous as you are...(If not more) 
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| 3/27/2008 3:55:27 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
second_chances
Chillicothe, OH
age: 41
| Countryman, apparently you don't look in the mirror too much - you have NOTHING to be unsure about..lol.
Let me tell you about the touch of a flower, ok? I had a guy walk into my job today with exactly that...1 flower. Told me he had thought of me when he saw it and brought it to me. I've only known him a very short while and have already told him I wouldn't go out with him....but it touched me so much that I'm reconsidering his offer. A very romantic gesture if you ask me.
I think you'll be just fine. 
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| 3/27/2008 3:56:15 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
libra75
Garfield, AR
age: 32
| Dont listen to Vik, dude....she's crazy!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 3/27/2008 3:57:20 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
missz
Summerville, SC
age: 49
| a Hot guy like you should not worry, just be yourself, flowers would be such a sweet touch good-luck
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| 3/27/2008 4:04:34 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
countryman08
Mansfield, OH
age: 42
| Alright - I guess I'm taking flowers. Or maybe a single pink rose.
Second_chances - if this guy is nice and you feel a connection with him, take him up on his offer. It's okay to have fun you know. What have you got to lose? If he comes to your job to do that shows he's mighty interested, right? Maybe set up a group date or something..?? You deserve some fun, gorgeous. 
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| 3/27/2008 4:04:43 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 46
| you are gonna come across as the real gentleman you are...Have I told ya what a cute hottie you are...well I have now...And I am with second chance and say that construction workers are awesome...love a hard workin man...
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| 3/27/2008 4:06:56 PM | First Date Coming Up | |
countryman08
Mansfield, OH
age: 42
| Thanks, lifetime..you're pretty cute yourself.
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