| 3/27/2008 4:36:31 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
kissssska
Berlin, CT
age: 43
| about their current relationship with someone else. Your honest advice would probably help their current relationship, but in doing so might ultimately hurt your chances with them. Would you .
1.Provide honest advice.
2.Sabotage their relationship with bad advice.
3. Give no advice.
    
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| 3/27/2008 4:40:31 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
newinil
Carlock, IL
age: 36
| As much as this pains me sometimes. I do my best to offer honest advice. I realize I destroy my chances with that person by doing so.
On a counter to the above though..There are times, when I feel like I should tell them that they are in a bad relationship, that I simply tell them they know how I feel toward them and it would be inappropriate for me to state my thoughts.
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| 3/27/2008 4:42:05 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
kay46
Quitaque, TX
age: 46
| honest advice, if they ever found out you gave bad advice and it affected their relationship, it might also be negative on your side
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| 3/27/2008 4:55:24 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| i would still anwser honesly cause if it meant to be it will be .
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| 3/27/2008 5:00:11 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 39
| Give them COMPLETE HONESTY...including sharing your interest in them. Then they have ALL the information and can make an informed decision based on it.
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| 3/27/2008 5:01:30 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| 3. Give no advice cause it would be too hard
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| 3/27/2008 5:04:58 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
libra75
Garfield, AR
age: 32
| If I was interested in all the people I gave advice too, y'all would make me change my name to "Man-Ho!!!"
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| 3/27/2008 5:06:15 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
vilobo
West Monroe, LA
age: 41
| If i believe the one who is asking is wrong,no advice.If I believe their in the right
I would give advice.
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| 3/27/2008 5:17:26 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
| I would let her know that my feelings for her would bias any advice I could give. Then see where that leads...
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| 3/27/2008 5:21:49 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
headstart68
Evansville, IN
age: 40
| Interesting topic! If you're interested in this person, and you're self-confident, it seems you'd be able to give them honest advice in your favor. After all, you know your feelings for this person are genuine. We can only guess about the other love interest.
But yeah, I get ya. If you can tell from what this person is saying that the other love interest deserves a chance, seems like a good person, etc., you've almost gotta pony up and give your blessing.
That would suck at the time, but the object of your affection would always remember how helpful you were. And, you'd have the peace of mind that comes from knowing you did the right thing.
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| 3/27/2008 5:42:02 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 48
| Well I would have to tell them that I needed to think on it first. Then after I wrestled with myself. I would give them the best advice I could possibly give since If I really cared about that person, I would want the best for them. That may not be me or if I give them heartfelt advice and it still doesn't work out. They will remember that I really cared about them and their happiness.
So in that either way I have come out with a win win situation. I mean would I really want someone I had steered towards me. NO, that would only set me up for heartbreak.
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| 3/27/2008 5:43:44 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
uptoc
Castle Rock, CO
age: 48
| GGrrooaann..oouch..pinch,pinch..sigh..yup,be HONEST..hurts sometimes huh?
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| 3/27/2008 5:44:30 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
icedsnow63
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 44
| that would suck sitka....really suck
geogeo...you are probably too nice of a guy...
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| 3/27/2008 6:47:10 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
1pinkstar
Omaha, NE
age: 54
| i would tell them exactly what i thought, after all...they are asking.
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| 3/27/2008 7:15:01 PM | Imagine you're interested in someone who asks you for advice | |
bassman67
Sycamore, IL
age: 18
| From experience, I give honest advice. I ignore that I like them, and treat them as I would a friend. They deserve your best advice, obviously, since you like them. Sometimes you have to take a loss to figure out who you are. My number is 3. I've had the opportunity 3 times, and all three I helped the couple get back together. Time 1 the relationship failed anyway, number 2 they got back with each other, and are still together and going strong, and this last time, they got back together, and are now engaged. I have the worst luck.
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