| 3/27/2008 7:48:40 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 bigben014 Parkville, MD age: 18
| what is the bottem line truth on what girls want for a boyfriend/relationship, ive never found this out whn ive asked ,help me out , 
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| 3/27/2008 7:50:56 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 nealdude Champaign, IL age: 50
| Probly treat them good, give a good toung job and be hung well. LOL, 
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| 3/27/2008 7:54:28 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 jose1971 Amarillo, TX age: 37
| a strong, confident man who will swim through shark infested waters to bring his woman a glass of lemonade, or money. depends what you select.
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| 3/27/2008 7:59:26 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 living01 Happy Valley, OR age: 38
| ok.....women want a man to want her, to be there for her, provide, make her laugh and I think most important thing is she wants you to think of her all the time! If you do think of her all the time you will bring her flowers or candy, not be late, and give her the attention she wants.
Just my thoughts! (but having a good package helps also)
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| 3/27/2008 8:08:27 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 krupa1 Abilene, TX age: 40
| Sorry Ben.....your f*cked.....welcome to the rest of your life. If you figure out what the hell women think......please let me know....apparently I am too dense to figure them out.
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| 3/27/2008 8:16:27 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 jose1971 Amarillo, TX age: 37
| BEN, your wasting too much effort with this one. At your age, neither gender knows what they want, and if they think they do, It'll change. My advice; go to school, military, whatever you want to do to prepare your life. Get to know as many girls as you can, pay attention to your elders and keep an open mind. be objective...........
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| 3/27/2008 8:19:45 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 usakindatheart Overton, TX age: 48 online now!
| there is your first problem, there are women then there are girls. Girls are from age 7 to 28 if not married. women are 18 if have a kid or 25 if no kid till of course the latter golden years.
If you want a girl, expect to be dumped and never be able to full fill them, because they are going through the stages of many identities, trying them out, discarding them, and one of those identities could be you ... for a while... then bam!, you dont fit any more because they have changed again and started trying a new identity.
women usually change once to twice a decade, the good thing about living with a woman on a daily bases is that you both change (if your a man and still not a boy, thats a different discussion) together. Grown ups that truly live there lives together actually help each other and adjust when a nother wave of identity or enlightenment happens when you grow older simply see a 28 to 35 year old woman go through her first mid life crisis mlc, then watch her go through her second at 48 or so, then again at 64.
But girls can change weekly and it is hard for a Man to change or keep up with them.
So do you want a girl? or a woman?
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| 3/27/2008 8:20:25 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 tim218 Cleveland, OH age: 25
| I tried that and you end up being just friends.
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| 3/27/2008 8:32:37 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 bigben014 Parkville, MD age: 18
| i want a woman , i kno exactly wat u mean though , i mix up what i am age equivlant to , and what iam mentally set on , most if not all my good friends are at least 2 years older, , most are in there mid 20s all the way up to there mid 30s
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| 3/27/2008 9:10:56 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 usakindatheart Overton, TX age: 48 online now!
| glad you understand the difference.
what do woman want?
cave man mentality is this. simple SECURITY
secure they are loved
secure that you are faithful
secure that the bills are paid
secure that you will keep loving them in future when they get old and outside beauty fades
secure that you think they are intelligent
secure that when they go through there decade changes that you will meet them half way
secure that you will forgive them if they mess up, check book, kill the car ect.
secure that you will hold there hand if ever they get a disease, breast cancer ect.
secure that you will always love them even when there bodies trash after having babies
secure that you will save money for a house you BOTH agree on and then buy it or build it
secure that you will surprise them with special gifts, inexpensive as a note or more
secure that if they have ideas for this or that new hobby , you will not make fun of them
secure that you will back them up if they want to go to school or stay home with babies
secure that you will love them even if the above they change their minds back and forth
secure that you will try to have sex 3 times a week at least and if they dont want to
ask them if you can give a back rub, and DONT push for sex even when the male still
wants to, but she already told you no sex, but yes to back rub
secure that you figured her monthly mood cycle. every woman has the 3-7 to 9 day period
she can have
1. pre period mood swings 3 days before period goes off, cries no reason than after her
period starts she becomes normal but:
very very tired and dont want to fight or argue.
2. mood swing during period
she has actual real pain during period, absolutly no sex, even rub belly or body
gives her actual pain, and she is really really cranky and for the life of her she
thinks she is acting normal or last
3. post emotional mood swing, this is last
2 days of period and 3 regular days, her body hormones are trying to even out again
and this brings on mood swings, cranky crying, to males she may GO OFF, for no
reason. women can be charted after 3-5 months. men be smart to figure this out.
girls can not be charted because periods are irregular, you never know when they
are going through a mood swing, get around a 14-18 year old girl and wow, bam! she
goes off on nothing, yet if the same thing happened a week a go, she would
probably would of laughed or blown it off as nothing.
modern woman want security too, but they also want a huge say so about money issues and
want there name on everything bought or signed for.
modern woman want more independent time to spend on there careers, instead of just
backing their mans.
good luck...
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| 3/27/2008 9:21:06 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 sincerity Woodbridge, NJ age: 48 online now!
| Yep' that says it all, well not to say that we are not all individuals (us women) and we might give or take a few to the above list that was posted by: usakindatheart
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| 3/27/2008 9:23:33 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 newfienurse Guelph, ON age: 31
| after just ending a nearly decade long relationship i can think of one thing that comes to mind...i want a partner...someone willing to share life with me and who is able to make me his first priority (he of course would be mine if we had made it to a relationship stage). i spent nearly a decade trying to be this for someone who did not want it (i don't think age matters here)...saw in in my sister's relationship and figured i deserved the same thing...is that to much? a relationship will be a lot of work for both and i think the most important thing is that both are willing to plug away at it even if one or the other changes over time.
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| 3/27/2008 9:33:04 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 chopperbabe Overland Park, KS age: 47
| Someone started a thread that I was awesome and I asked permission to use it in my profile. I did change she to he and her to him but it is still the same. I hope others find it as awesome as I did ...
What I look for in a Man is simple. I want him to love me more than anything. I want him to rush home to see me. I want him to talk to me about everything, and about nothing. I want him to be my best friend. All the other stuff likes and dislikes, favorite stuff will fall in place.
~used by permission from member jeremy318~
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| 3/27/2008 11:27:07 PM | what do girls want ? | |
 flowergirl62 South Australia Australia age: 46
| I just want to be loved and have him let me into his heart.
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