| 4/9/2008 7:32:24 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
|  I learn alot about the people (men) just by coming to the forums. I have found that there are men that I would never want to meet just by reading their posts here. Then again, there are men that I would enjoy meeting because of their posts. I think it lets us see another side of one another and our wit, lack of it, and our humor. Very helpful to me so far. Insightful..try to enjoy it and not take it so seriously..have fun.. 
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| 4/9/2008 7:32:40 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
liteguy
Scranton, PA
age: 51
| yea liz get soo close but dont get the door closed in time.
Not the smooth talkin casanova i guess. ??? 
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| 4/9/2008 7:38:15 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
elizabeth_a
Tampa, FL
age: 89
| well yummy, any way you look at it, it is a competition. more choices, more options. For me, I have a set of initial criteria. If it is not there to start, the rest is fruitless effort. I would typically be polite and respond, now I just delete them. Then I do not have to tolerate the a$$ hole responses I get. It is truly amazing to me how many insecure, immature people are on these sites. Especially men in their 40's and 50's. I would expect a higher caliber of man. Nope
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| 4/9/2008 7:39:56 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
elizabeth_a
Tampa, FL
age: 89
| lite it is not about smooth talking. Smooth talking will get you rejected quickly. And if she does not see it immediatly,when she does, adios.
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| 4/9/2008 7:40:10 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
yummyballs75
Las Vegas, NV
age: 29
| Well I for one am glad to compete as long as the woman is worth it if she isn't I will not waist my time either
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| 4/9/2008 7:46:35 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
elizabeth_a
Tampa, FL
age: 89
| LOL, actually yummy I do not compete. One either has it intially or they dont. If I begin to talk to a man, he gets 100% of my attention to start. I dont share my time. Even when starting out. I expect the same. If he is sharing his time, he is gone. If he tries to come back, the door is closed. I see it this way, if one cannot give me 100% of thier time to start, then I most likely will not get it later. It is all a measure of their character and as to their interest from the start. I do not mess around, and I am not going to play these childish games.
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| 4/9/2008 7:50:43 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
yummyballs75
Las Vegas, NV
age: 29
| Well liz the fact is that not all the time are you pursuing a relationship with a person but getting to know people. The fact is that most woman like to be competed for right or wrong that is the truth I wish I could meet an interesting woman that gives me a 100% but I'm not going to shrug someone off just because they aren't completely into me it does take time and getting to know each other.JMO
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| 4/9/2008 7:51:58 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
liteguy
Scranton, PA
age: 51
| u r right liz. i dont pretend to be somebody i'm not. take me as i am ... learened not to change it don't work...........
Again liz i wouldnt be here if i had someone to share life with ........
If i find one then i will be gone !!!
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| 4/9/2008 7:55:07 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
elizabeth_a
Tampa, FL
age: 89
| yummy it is persuing a relationship and getting to know them is the first step---duh, but again, I give 100% from the start, if they cannot they are gone, it is that simple. I am not desperate here. I can remain single very easily.
Oh I was just reading some of my email. Talk about stupid people and jerks. No culture, no class.
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| 4/9/2008 7:56:16 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
elizabeth_a
Tampa, FL
age: 89
| good for you lite, but I have come to the conclusion, it is not going to happen on a dating site. Well not for me.
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| 4/9/2008 8:01:44 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
liteguy
Scranton, PA
age: 51
| yea liz , now i find myself comin here to chat in the forums.
but that is gettin old .. still i remain hopeful someday ...........
here or anywhere..
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| 4/9/2008 8:03:30 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
lyngrl79
Columbia, PA
age: 29
| i'm actually looking but definitely want to go slow.
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| 4/9/2008 8:11:58 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
lovinglife07
Norfolk, NE
age: 46
| Hi Decomposer,
I am an older woman than you...yet full of life and fun and I am going to speak to you honestly and from the heart.
First of all....you can be happy and not have someone to share it with....us OLD folks have that figured out! In fact, that is what is most appealing about another individual.
So with compassion and kindness in my heart I tell you...."change your attitude, change your life, and change your picture to one of you smiling....if you are a fisherman at all you will understand that what you catch is dependant upon the bait!
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| 4/9/2008 8:12:14 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
vilobo
West Monroe, LA
age: 41
| If i cant carry on a good e-mail conversation for awhile I dont give them my
phone number because it would be senseless.The same for going out,no good phone
dialog no date.Because then I know their playing the field-(being competed for)
whatever you want call it and will be doing the same even if you end up
together.
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| 4/9/2008 8:45:00 PM | Anyone actually looking? | |
elizabeth_a
Tampa, FL
age: 89
| vilobo, women are just mimicking the men, that’s all they are doing. There is the old saying what goes around comes around. I will be very candid, I have never been in one place for a short period of time where I have encountered more insecure, immature, wimpy, cry baby men. It makes we want to let my stomach contents loose.
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