| 4/1/2008 7:19:38 PM | the babyface curse | |
mitchin
Collinsville, IL
age: 30
| i have this problem and it just gets worse every year. im almost 30 years old but i look closer to 16. i can get dates with the younguns, but women my age wont even give me a chance cause they think my maturity level matches my appearance or something. im tired of dating stupid girls. i want a woman for once. im feeling pretty hopeless about it, and its killing my confidence. everyone tells me its a blessing cause when im 50 ill still look 20 something but til then its a curse. do i really have to wait 20 years to meet a real woman?
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| 4/1/2008 10:33:46 PM | the babyface curse | |
christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 39
| I'm sorry t o hear you are having such a hard time out there. If I may ask, what types of venues are you trying to meet more mature women in? And what is your definition of a mature woman?
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| 4/2/2008 1:29:04 AM | the babyface curse | |
mitchin
Collinsville, IL
age: 30
| oh its ok. i just get frustrated when i go to bars and try to be friendly with a cute girl (maybe even years younger than i), and she just gives me a dirty look and asks if im old enough to be here. by mature i don't care about age so much, just that a woman knows what she wants in life and doesn't play silly high school games. know what i mean? a woman thats done screwing around and is ready to settle down.
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| 4/2/2008 3:13:43 AM | the babyface curse | |
nwiowa
Cherokee, IA
age: 53
| Grow a beard it'll make you look a little older. I look much younger than my 52 yrs, especially in person. Most people think I'm still in my late 30's. I act like I'm in my early 20's. But like you I can't get a date. But for other reasons I'm sure.
[Edited 4/2/2008 11:56:36 AM]
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| 4/2/2008 5:39:21 AM | the babyface curse | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| Put your photo up and I will tell you what I think. I had this problem for years - all my friends would get into the bar and I would always get stopped for ID. Very frustrating. Now I'm 45 and most guys on here think I look younger which I take as a compliment although sometimes I feel about 90. So it will get better.
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| 4/2/2008 6:38:16 AM | the babyface curse | |
yarnball
Edmonton, AB
age: 30
| Yeah it has happened to me a few times recently. Nothing worse than having someone hang off of you all night then have them drop you when they find out how old you are. Now as you said you are sick of stupid woman, try dating one thats too intelligent, that doesn't go well either.
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| 4/2/2008 10:52:41 AM | the babyface curse | |
christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 39
| Mitch~ Yes, I know what you mean. Thank you for the clarification and explanation.
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| 4/2/2008 11:38:41 AM | the babyface curse | |
dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 56
| Enjoy the baby face. Someday they won't be asking for your id, and you will wish you had it...
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| 4/2/2008 11:54:04 AM | the babyface curse | |
dorothy72
Maroa, IL
age: 36
| no real woman right here, closer than you think, lookin right past apperances and into the future, for a real yes real one on one relationship, but to talk to me you have to get past the fact that i'm only a shadow for now anyway
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| 4/2/2008 2:24:10 PM | the babyface curse | |
sea_dragon
Crystal River, FL
age: 31
| I was nicknamed babyface in the Navy so don't feel bad.
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| 4/2/2008 2:24:20 PM | the babyface curse | |
sweetbabeblues
Hannibal, MO
age: 52
| When you get older you wil love it.. While all your friends are running around looking like old men, you're still gonna look like a younger guy...
I know...I had that too, and now at 52, everyone thinks I am in my thirties.... Love it now...Hated it then......
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| 4/2/2008 8:39:45 PM | the babyface curse | |
mitchin
Collinsville, IL
age: 30
| thanks everyone for the advice. it really made me feel better. i was lol at most of the replies.you are all great people, thanks again. Im trying to grow out my goatee but it grows real slow and looks pretty lame right now. thats why i usually just shave.
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| 4/2/2008 8:42:00 PM | the babyface curse | |
tualatinor
Golden, CO
age: 43
| Good lord, you have a beautiful face. Like others said, enjoy it.
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| 4/2/2008 8:43:41 PM | the babyface curse | |
nealdude
Champaign, IL
age: 50
| Get rid of the ball cap and dress your age that might help.
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| 4/2/2008 8:47:34 PM | the babyface curse | |
kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
| This fashion advice coming from one of the blues brothers?
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