| 4/1/2008 9:09:25 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
beckym
Conroe, TX
age: 43
| why are some men scared of big hearts and honesty,
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| 4/1/2008 9:31:02 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| Are they telling you those are things they're scared of? If not, it seems to me that by jumping to that conclusion you could turn more than a few men off.
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| 4/1/2008 9:42:44 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Men won't admit to being afraid of anything, Part of that macho bull crap. But you have 2 basic types of guys, the first one wants you to fall for him and give him anything he wants until he gets tired of you (truth is he a pretty boy, and so much in love with himself he doesn't have room for someone to love him) so he bails out. The other type ain't near as pretty and he's been hearing lies so long and getting tired of having to pay for the way some pretty boy has treated a good woman, that if you tell him the truth and are real, it scares the hell out of him, he don't know how to deal with it. and the third type don't fit in to either of the other two catagories, I don't know many of them. Keep this a secret i'm not allowed to tell and if they catch me they'll make me listen to hours of Barry Manilow records, and I'd rather have the firing squad. 
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| 4/1/2008 9:44:11 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
age: 37
| you are wrong Daddy I aint skeered of nuttin!  
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| 4/1/2008 9:51:29 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
homesteder
Red Deer, AB
age: 43
| I think because big hearts make the man think about his feeling and most men have no clue what they are feeling so its hard to give a honest answer.
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| 4/1/2008 9:54:45 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Midnight, Read it again, there is a 3rd type, but I'm like you I ain't scared of man nor beast, all they can do is kill you, But a woman can destroy your soul. But we ain't skeered of nutin' 'cept haveing to listen to those Manilow records
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| 4/1/2008 9:55:08 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 39
| Daddy~ I think you hit the nail on the head here.
Home~ Don't you think that also applies to women as well?
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| 4/1/2008 9:55:49 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
capt_bt
Brooklyn, NY
age: 46
| i believe it works both ways. because we all have a past. it hard to open up based on our past experiences. we all have been hurt from time to time so lets just say were being cautious.
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| 4/1/2008 10:08:57 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
nicholaspolke
Onaway, MI
age: 44
| I dont have a clue on what you are saying, Honesty and compassion are wonderful. just because a guy doesn't tell you what you want too hear or doesn't appreciate or accept what you are offering doesn't make him afraid of honesty and a big heart. be care ful, manipulation and denial can seem like honesty and big hearted
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| 4/1/2008 10:14:49 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
homesteder
Red Deer, AB
age: 43
| No christ,i always thought women know exactly how they are feeling.
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| 4/1/2008 10:18:05 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
lazarous67
San Jacinto, CA
age: 41
| I cant say they are afraid. I just know (some) woman are pretty damn convincing, and then we find out it was a lie. Then next thing you know all woman are liars and wh*res. At least for a week or two, then we tend to put our heads out of our asses and realize that everyone is the same, men and woman, and it`s back to trying to score again.
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| 4/1/2008 10:27:18 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
whotea
Evansville, IN
age: 42
| I think the generalization assumes both too little and too much. Some men are not afraid of big hearts and honesty. This quality regardless of the opionion of others is not exculsive of men who may or may not like Barry Manilow regardless of thier orientation. My experience suggests that many women are afraid of the same qualities in thier partners. Bio-chemical-electro-magnetic "love" can scare most of us at its most intense, and people with half a brain and a few painful life experiences would be crazy not to exercise caution in such circumstances. Sometimes one must simply deal with their issues in order to be prepared to give and accept love(big hearts), and honesty. I nearly always prefer the truth to dishonesty or evasive ambiguity. I can work with the truth, but I find dishonesty or evasiveness is not useful. Surprisingly I've told many women in my life a truth they didn't want to hear. After they asked me 3 or 4 times I eventually told them exactly what I thought and how I felt while encouraging them not to ask questions which would ellicit unwanted truthful answers. I've frequently been amazed when some women have professed thier undying love for me as it clearly was simply not true. I have also found myself encouraging a partner by suggesting that she could not express her truth to me until she discovered it for herslef first. We all sometimes simply need to stop hiding mostly from ourselves to discover our truth prior to any considerations about expressing it to another, but that's just my opinion. Maybe strong opinions are part of the reason I'm single. Do you find it doubtful, as I do, that anyone is able to be completely honest with his or her self or even others 100% of the time?
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| 4/1/2008 10:34:11 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
lazarous67
San Jacinto, CA
age: 41
| Whotea........you poor man it is no wonder you are single, you are way too freaking analitical.
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| 4/1/2008 10:38:20 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
age: 37
| yeh Daddy I agree, I was joking though, I aint skeered of anything except PMS!
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| 4/1/2008 10:46:20 PM | Why are Men Scared of RELATIONSHIPS ? | |
coyboy66
Amarillo, TX
age: 42
| maybe thy have been hurt by a women befor/?
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