| 4/1/2008 9:21:11 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | | 
harley9482
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 25
|  Why do females, not all but the overly vast majority, scream and demand answers for inquiries they make or just think about, yet they seem to avoid and deflect directly answering questions and inquiries made to them?
Example: Many women whine and complain about guys keeping secrets, and avoiding telling what they really want, though too many women do that almost 7 times more, and for near no comparible reason.
Ladies, why not confess why you won't be direct when asked about the type of guy, yet you'll complain about how you supposedly have no luck finding them??
| | 4/1/2008 9:28:51 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | | 
craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 40
| Could be the way you ask the questions. It's hard to tell without a specific example.
| | 4/1/2008 9:30:55 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | | 
christi8680
Ithaca, NY
age: 39
| I think I'm pretty specific on what I want. However, sometimes what I think I clearly say, isn't clear to the other person. If someone isn't sure what I mean, Ask. I will try my best to clarify.
| | 4/1/2008 9:31:25 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | | 
sweetbabeblues
Hannibal, MO
age: 52
| Hey...I lay it on the line and believe in speaking up and saying just what I want....
And I don't like secrets..
Usualy secrets mean they are keeping the truth from you, and that means they are in trouble, and don't want to be caught.....
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| | 4/1/2008 9:33:06 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | |
belladreams
Binghamton, NY
age: 38
| Well i will be the first to admit to avoiding questions answered by men over the telephone because the first thing they ask you, and they cut right to the chase....they dont ask you, hi, how are you? How long have you been on the system? Have you had any luck so far? So what town are you from? How is the weather down there? Do you have a big family? Any children? Oh nooooo they have to get to the cut to the chase questions where i have to hang up the phone on them....What color is your hair? How much do you weigh? What is your breast size? What are your measurements? How tall are you? Do you dress up when you go out? Are your finger nails clean? What kind of perfume do you wear? DO you wear nylons or tights? Do you wear spiked high heels or regular ones? What shoe size are you? Do you wear heavy makeup? What is your skin type? Are you light complected? Do you have breast implants? Is your hair real? Is it medium length or long? Do you have any facial hair? Do you have nice legs? Do you wear a thong or bikini underwear? Do you use FDS spray so you dont sweat and smell when you go out onto the dance floor? How much money do you make? Do you live alone? How many children do you have? Are they all from the same father? Are you on welfare? Do you have a good job? Do you have your own car....
Okay.....now you wonder why we avoid giving answers......this is what you men ask every single time we pick up our phone and we are getting pretty tired of it. We just want a decent, normal conversation. We dont want any stereo typing crap. I just hang up the phone on men like that. Females demand the answers because we are picky. We want the best for our family too. Guys are a little more balanced and tougher when it comes to relationships. Men have no problems avoiding answers. They will tell you how long their penis size is without even asking. If you ask stupid questions, you will get stupid answers, plain and simple. I think I answered all your questions on behalf of all the DH women... have yourself a lovely evening......
| | 4/1/2008 9:33:56 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | | 
grace_ful_heart
College Station, TX
age: 39
| why do you ask?
(ok, i couldn't help myself)
| | 4/1/2008 9:41:33 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | |
harley9482
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 25
| being the caring, genuine heart-on-my-sleeve man, i get burned and brushed off way too much, and unlike most males on here and outside, i don't go and want to talk about sex 24/7, nor do i use that as the initial topic.
Like i say below, I want to find out why women deflect or avoid directly answering questions, whether simple, or complicated. If you say you like a type, most my experiences have shown that most women who moan and supposedly pine for the type of man, who is a real man, who respects them, cares for, etc; most my experiences have resulted in many women who give that lip-service ignoring me, while i am not just trying to be that type of man, but naturally am. Then, after brush-offs, like "you're sweet", "you're too sweet", or "...but you're just too sweet", I get annoyed at the seeming lie that your supposed desire for the real man, becomes.
If you type in your profile, or actually utter the lines of how you "want a man to be there for you, care for and protect you, how he doesn't have to be rich, or ripped, or that you want him to respect and want you for you, and willing to accept you for you", then why turn and run when one genuine man with that as part of his description, contacts you, and doesn't lead off with, or just want to have sex with you?
| | 4/2/2008 3:14:42 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | | 
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
| No stereotyping? Wow!!!
| | 4/2/2008 3:16:01 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | |
harley9482
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 25
| thank you, i don't like being stereotyped, so i try not include the entire gender or race of someone in a stereotype
| | 4/2/2008 3:45:53 PM | Why do females demand answers, yet too common, avoid giving answers? | |
cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
| I found it interesting that the one who brought up stereotyping is consistently qualifying posts with her family heritage. Even with her internet experience, for that matter.
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