| 4/1/2008 9:49:05 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
ssweet22
Fremont, CA
age: 35
| I started a buddy friendship with a male co-worker. We had sex 2-3 times, but not anymore since Oct last year. He's in bad relationship. He would call me every Mon-Fri, when he's on the way home from work. We joke with no limit. But many times he talked about he likes me. 1 time he said he have feelings for me. He left the company last month, he kept saying it's better cause maybe we can start dating, or he can hit on me anytime. I know he's a flirt kind of guy. But since he expressed it so many times, do you think he is seriously like me? Should I have a serious talk with him and find out? 
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| 4/1/2008 9:53:42 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
timetogolf
Au Gres, MI
age: 54
| ssweet,
i know it sounds harsh to say it this way.....and I am a bit cynical....but I would say stop having sex with him and if he still takes the time to talk with you, maybe you've got a winner.......but my guess is that he is just using you for sex. Don't give your heart until you know for sure. Please take care and be careful.
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| 4/1/2008 10:00:25 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
ssweet22
Fremont, CA
age: 35
| timetogolf
Thank you, I really appreciate your caring. But I did stop having sex with him since Oct. I happened to be mad at him twice..not talking to him. Somehow he would come apologize and really want to be friends. I know he's the guy who will pick up girls and have sex. I like him...as buddy friend. Now I'm so afraid that I might like him emotionally, as he is very persistence. For one, sometimes I don't even know when he is serious or when he is joking.
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| 4/1/2008 10:01:22 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
crazylisa
Newton, NJ
age: 40
| I say...exactly that stop the sex....if hes in such a bad relationship why isnt he getting out????..
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| 4/1/2008 11:00:47 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
lazarous67
San Jacinto, CA
age: 41
| Ok it is just sex. we all know it, when a man acts that way says one thing does another. i know lots of guys like that. it is only sex to him. drop this guy like a bad habbit.
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| 4/1/2008 11:05:18 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| Yes stop sleeping with him and see what happens for a little while..........set the truth free.
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| 4/2/2008 4:31:44 AM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 57
| Dump him lol he's a player got you and his one at home and who knows how many others.
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| 4/2/2008 4:37:53 AM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
mosplace
Boulder City, NV
age: 46
| You the eat of the cake (got his cake and...) meet him in a general place for breakfast Brunch etc.... talk to him tell him your feelings see where it goes but definately cut off the sex until its straightened out
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| 4/2/2008 5:58:11 AM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
| well you did say buddy friendship....
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| 4/2/2008 6:08:36 AM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47
| We do like to have our cake and eat it too don't we?
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| 4/2/2008 6:18:15 AM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 47
| Yep have a serious talk find out his motives
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| 4/3/2008 5:43:56 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
ssweet22
Fremont, CA
age: 35
| Thank you all for great advises. I think I'm not going to waste a minute thinking about it. So don't even bother to talk, wonder if it's even matter. 
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| 4/3/2008 5:54:49 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
tradwind
Jeddo, MI
age: 45
| have sex with him one more time when you are done with the sex
kiss his ass GOOD BY
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| 4/4/2008 9:17:16 PM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
ssweet22
Fremont, CA
age: 35
| Bad news!!! So, this buddy is coming back to the company...next week! And seems like we are gonna be seeing each other a lot at work. The problem is...some people in office thought we are dating!!!
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| 4/9/2008 8:04:33 AM | What Does He Want Exactly?!! | |
sincerelylookin
Hector, MN
age: 53
| I DONT KNOW... But i Want My True Love, My Everylasting Loved One.
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