| 4/4/2008 8:01:50 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
coolcajun
Boutte, LA
age: 37
| Why is it that when a guy does everything he can so he can date you, and become friends first and then some ladies say we can't date we are to good of friends. What is up with that. Just would like to know.
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| 4/4/2008 8:02:18 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| You need to read this:
http://www.laddertheory.com/
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| 4/4/2008 8:03:43 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
| Cuz they are the ones with the honey pot...and they can....
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| 4/4/2008 8:09:12 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
smilingkayaker
Phoenix, NY
age: 49
| could it simply be that the women in question only want to be your friend? I have several guy "friends" and that's exactly what I see them as, friends, nothing more.http://www.datehookup.com/images/smiley/idontknow.gif
http://www.datehookup.com/images/smiley/idontknow.gif
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| 4/4/2008 8:11:00 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| I bet you if you asked any male friend to have sex.. they'd say yes.
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| 4/4/2008 8:16:57 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
coolcajun
Boutte, LA
age: 37
| wise your so damn right.
smiley I have alot of female friends to, but this guy I know was atracted to this young lady and they hit it off and every time he would go out she would call or text him and they would see each other and nothing happend just hang out. Well he broke down and asked her on a real date and she said she can't they are too good of friends.
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| 4/4/2008 8:18:48 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| miley I have alot of female friends to, but this guy I know was atracted to this young lady and they hit it off and every time he would go out she would call or text him and they would see each other and nothing happend just hang out. Well he broke down and asked her on a real date and she said she can't they are too good of friends.
Read the ladder theory.
And true.. a woman and I were getting along great.. lots of fun and laughing and hugs and cuddling.. then I told her I was really attracted to her and he told me that "I don't want to ruin the friendship"
ruin it? wtf? This is why I honestly believe you treat a woman like shit and she will suck yer d*ck.. but if you turn into a friend she won't put out.
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| 4/4/2008 8:23:53 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
smilingkayaker
Phoenix, NY
age: 49
| Wise The operative word is "girls" they like to play games and they like all the drama. I see it with my sons friends all the time.
I've even dated a few much younger (yet mature) men, they like older women because there isn't all the drama.
Give these girls a few years and they will realize you can't change someone!
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| 4/4/2008 8:27:08 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
smilingkayaker
Phoenix, NY
age: 49
| Cool Like I said, she just doesn't see him that way. I have friends that I absolutely adore, but I realize they are not what I am looking for in a "love" relationship.
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| 4/4/2008 8:28:43 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
smilingkayaker
Phoenix, NY
age: 49
| Evil I might clarify, that my guy friends are pal's. There is no cuddling etc.
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| 4/4/2008 8:46:33 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
coolcajun
Boutte, LA
age: 37
| i hear you and I personaly have great girl friends and we cut up and bull shit together but when you get to relly like someone why is it I don't want to ruin our friendship. Ok but when you start talking to some other girl they get man. wtf
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| 4/4/2008 9:04:39 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
slady52
Lake Oswego, OR
age: 56
| romantic chemistry maybe was missing. I have a lot of male friends who I love dearly, but I do not feel a chemistry with them.
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| 4/4/2008 9:06:38 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
smilingkayaker
Phoenix, NY
age: 49
| Cool If they are getting mad when you hit on other women, sounds to me like they are interested in you. If I was out with one of my guy friends and he saw someone he wanted to get to know, I'd help him meet her!
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| 4/4/2008 9:12:37 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 49
| Why do people put qualifying threads just for the ladies or men? the other sex posts anyway? ok off topic just asking.
Personally I'd rather it be upfront and end up as "Friends" than nothing. As has been said its the chemistry but I do love a woman with honesty instead of not saying what she wants to becasue she might "hurt" someone. I am a big man now.. Deal with it
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| 4/4/2008 9:20:24 AM | Just a question for the ladies | |
coolcajun
Boutte, LA
age: 37
| I hooked up alotof my friends with guys and would get mad if they would hookup with jurks.
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