I've met someone, what to do

4/5/2008 7:40:33 AM	I've met someone, what to do
karokeman Abita Springs, LA age: 37	If you have read my threads you know I have had a rough go fot the last 5 months. I met someone a few weeks ago. It started out as a hi how you doing, Now it is phone calls when you get up and phone calls during work and so on. I am really interested in her and I have been honest with her about my last relationship. I am scared of being burned again. She is 24 years old and I have had problems with younger women wanting to play. I think there is a posiabilty do you think it is to soon, to trust and open up. One thing I admire about her is she is still a virgin, so that means unlike my ex she has self control. Any suggestions.
4/5/2008 7:49:03 AM	I've met someone, what to do
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34 online now!	The one thing you don't want to do is get overly emotional with her too early. You said "few weeks" it's still early. Some people hide their smokescreen for a good 2-3 months and then you see the REAL PERSON. Now I'm not saying she isn't a good person by any means. All I'm saying take things day to day as they come and if they are good, that's something good to build upon - don't mess it up and hope that she doesn't make a drastic change after the first 2-3 months. Too note, I always tell people, when all is good anyone's character is good too. People naturally like good times. HOWEVER, YOU REALLY WON'T know a person in a relationship/dating until adversity strikes. If you two make it through a couple of bumps, then it's all good.
4/5/2008 8:08:13 AM	I've met someone, what to do
adrianmom06 Moss Point, MS age: 24	Hey you may not know me for I am new to this site but a little insight on the young thing. Women young or old all know how to brake a heart. Yes some play the game a bit better than others but it is not all about the age. If you like her then go for it. Like the guy above me said you will know in a couple months. Maybe yall should continue jus talking so that you will know if it is true. If you keep your heart surronded by a wall then you will NEVER get a chance at true love!!! Jus a opinion from a Young woman who has been there and doing it!!!
4/5/2008 8:12:07 AM	I've met someone, what to do
bocabrat Boca Raton, FL age: 41	Take your time....slow it down a notch, you don't want to get hurt. you sound like a nice guy. If it is meant to be, she's not going anywhere anyhow. "NO", You don't want to get burned again, and of course none of us do! So be extra careful, and just keep getting to know each other over time...time will tell alot of things to you. When we have children these things are even more important to worry about, because we are not the only ones that get hurt, are kids do too...Hope this helps! JMO... Good Luck! bocabrat
4/5/2008 8:14:52 AM	I've met someone, what to do
darrelslookin4u Bullhead City, AZ age: 47	Pleeeeeeeeze! Take it slow! Don't push the river!! Best advice I ever got. But didn't take!!!
4/5/2008 8:36:05 AM	I've met someone, what to do
ladyinparis Paris, TX age: 41	It is so easy to get caught up in the intrigue of meeting someone new---especially online. Talking on the phone DOES NOT mean you really know someone. Your imagination plays a part in this too, whether you realize it or not. When you meet in person---it is a whole different story. It is like you never spoke to them at all. The not being nervous and being comfortable to speak goes away. Then there is what you expected them to look like (often times we look nothing like our pics--even if we took them the same day--imagination has go to play a part in that I'm sure!) Don't get to caught up in this "new" thing. Meet with her, go on a date, but don't fool yourself by thinking you have true feelings for this person, because you don't know until you have met in person and dated a while. Good luck..you seem like a very nice guy who tends to wear his heart on his sleeve. Women really love men who are open to feeling, but be careful not to let it be taken advantage of--some women will use that great quality against you.
4/5/2008 8:51:10 AM	I've met someone, what to do
foxy_woman_49 Omaha, NE age: 47	yep..meet in person much does change when that happens..some good some bad. With the age difference be careful
4/5/2008 8:56:58 AM	I've met someone, what to do
jeffest1478 Saint Augustine, FL age: 30	Good to hear you both have clicked, as for you being honest about your past is good. If you feel she has been honest with you, then go for it. Meet her get to know her personally.....as for she is 24 ane still a virgin....?...hard for me to believe. My last marriage was with a younger person and personally I will never make that mistake again. This doesnt mean that the one your with is an any way the same, she could be the one you have been searching for....take your time, and best of luck!
4/5/2008 8:58:25 AM	I've met someone, what to do
evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 35	24 year old female virgin? LAWL!! Not possible.
4/5/2008 10:32:54 AM	I've met someone, what to do
flowergirl62 South Australia Australia age: 46	eddy put your eyes back in your head.................
4/5/2008 10:36:40 AM	I've met someone, what to do
evileddy Ottawa, ON age: 35	Actually virgin women are too much work in bed.
4/5/2008 12:53:17 PM	I've met someone, what to do
hr4frnds8uphuh Dayton, OH age: 39	First things first; Make sure your free from any past relationships. Second, make sure this isn't just a rebound to ease your pain. Third, take time to get to know one another. Just because she is a virgin shouldn't make much of a difference. Do you like her because she says shes a virgin or because of the way she talks to you. If you like her because shes a virgin, how will you feel when shes not? Don't compare or fully explain your past relationships.