adelinesmother
Fremont, NE
age: 38
| My opinion would be yes. I think that it would be wrong for you to keep confessing your love to her, she remarried, she moved on.
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searching4bliss
Prescott Valley, AZ
age: 55
| Winesong, good advice! But as I always say; keep your mind, soul, and heart open always!!! Life is SO short!!!!!!!!!
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ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| Do not mistake familiarity or loneliness for love.
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dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 56
| Make a list of what it is about her that you love vs. one of what it is that you don't love. If you are honest w/yourself,I bet the later has more on it.She has moved on you need to also.
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
| You need to move on and find happiness for yourself!!! It is never easy to get a loved one out of your mind and heart but you deserve to be happy!! One of my favorite quotes......
 When one door of happiness closes, another opens,
but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
Helen Keller
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
| There was a reason for the divorce. Even if you two remarried, that reason would crop up again. Anything unfixed remains the same. I say move on, dry your tears, heal your heart and give it enough room for the right person to share it. I seriously doubt that those are feelings of love you feel. Rather, you might be jealous that another man has taken your place.
Good luck to you ~ we have all been there and know how you feel.
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jlf294u
Peoria, IL
age: 30
| wow! I am the one who started this thread and I have just read all of the responses & it seems most people think I have a problem moving on. This is not true. I have moved on but I still love her I can not help it. She is the mother of my two beautiful daughters and I see and talk to her often so it is difficult to put way the feelings when I see her at soccer games or birthday parties, my mother and her still have a wonderful relationship. I have dated other women since the divorce some seriously and some not so serious but none compares. I always find myself telling her things like "you know I still love you or geez Mandi you are the love of my life". guess I am just unluckily in love
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justintime8888
Phelan, CA
age: 36
| lookman if more men were like u we wouldn't have the the problems with divorce like we do today Love really should be un-conditional so I respect how u feel and u do need to let her go but embrace the fact that this defining quality that u have is unaffected so u can have oppurtunity to relay and convey this type of strength in your moral and ask the Lord for help I did and he helped-------Justin
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babe1432
South Australia
Australia
age: 22
| you need help 
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