doowopden
Philadelphia, PA
age: 48
| When your partner tries to relive their youth and becomes a party animal again.
when your partner would like you to be her sole reason for living, to be their sole reason for existing [scary]and tries to stop you from having interests, hobbies and friends because, as she argues, "it takes time and attention away from me"."I should be all you need in you're life"
and for the men, when you have to make the bulk of the money,be responsible for the bulk of the bills, if you get married. and pay for ALL of the dates. why? as she says, YOU ARE A MAN. lol lol lol."men are suppose to do this" allot of responsibility for having a penis. as I said for years," when women marry for money that is called"security" when men marry for money, he is called a "gigolo". and of course for the other obvious reasons. ie cheating, verble and physical abuse etc etc.
[Edited 4/6/2008 10:20:48 AM]
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| In counseling classes a counselor is taught to listen for the phrase "what about me?" this signifies the relationship has ended.... it sounds as though you lived with a woman who began saying "what about me" some time after you married her...
Which is awful for you to have experienced.
My point generally is to Father's.
Daddy's need to rethink how they raise their little princess - so she isn't some man's unending nightmare as a wife or life partner...
Think of the little girl she was, how she grew up and see the role Dad's play in raising selfish, high maintenance, shallow, demanding women.
My Dad made me stand on my own two feet and encouraged me to be everythinG I could be as a woman. Not an adored and pampered poodle... JMO
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