| 4/6/2008 6:28:27 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
thickncute7
Saginaw, MI
age: 20
| Im like so in love with this guy im crazy for him, but i dont think hes ready to settle down. he tells me he cares about me and stuff but sometimes i dont think he really does how to i find out for sure before i make a fool of myself??
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| 4/6/2008 6:33:30 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
age: 48
| first off and foremost, how long have you known this guy? has he been in any long term relationships that you know of? do not get to personal with him or he'll run like a cut coon! let him spill the beans. if he's worth it, take it slow. if he's really not into you, then it's NEXT! you are still young, so test the waters first,ok? good luck!
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| 4/6/2008 7:45:34 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
thickncute7
Saginaw, MI
age: 20
| well hes told me to my face that he has love FOR me but hes never said he loved me. its all just stressful...he tells me that he wants me with him all the time but there was no talk of a relationship
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| 4/6/2008 7:47:53 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
8ucute
South Lyon, MI
age: 44
| you are young. take it slow dear.
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| 4/6/2008 7:53:15 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
impressivetoys
Wells, MN
age: 27
| Be careful that your just not a sidedish on this one. Men do take a little while fall for a lady, and alotta times, they dont realize it even when they do til its too late and shes long, long, looooong gone, with no chance in hell of ever gettin her back. So yeah, take it slow, and feel him out some more. (depending on the length of this relationship already)
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| 4/6/2008 7:56:22 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
sumbeach777
Red Springs, NC
age: 45
| good advice there dude, Im sure all will be ok, and yes taking it slow, to see where it goes....Good luck...Beach
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| 4/6/2008 8:03:45 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
mrgomez
Oxnard, CA
age: 24
| hey thickncute7 talk to him n let him know what u feel n if hes feeling u the same way take it slow but also make sure your not wasting time hun if hes not bringing up stuff like a relationship hes probly not deeply into u.i gotta be honest cause i dont play games n i like to be honest n straight up!! let it be known hun.
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| 4/6/2008 8:04:42 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
| It would help to know his age And how long ya'll have been together.
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| 4/6/2008 11:23:41 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
abadkitty3
Sutter Creek, CA
age: 31
| Read this book by Greg Benhart, its called "Hes Just Not That Into You" you will get your answer.
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| 4/6/2008 11:44:07 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
stylistic
Rockville, MD
age: 45
| Settle down? Your 20 how old is the guy? how long have you been dating? Did you already have sex?
Did he ask you to be in an exclusive,monogamous relationship? If the answer is no,then he and you are not ready to settle down your still dating. Keep yourself from trying to have a talk about the relationship.Relax have fun.
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| 4/6/2008 11:55:10 PM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
| Communication is very important in relationships. Stop trying to figure it out on your own, and just be straight with him and ask him point blank where your relationship stands or even if he feels that you are in one. You will just drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. We dont have enough information about the two of you and whats gone on between you to be able to give you advice that would benefit you. Remember, communication is the key..good luck 
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| 4/7/2008 8:24:34 AM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
thickncute7
Saginaw, MI
age: 20
| I know im only 20 but that dosent matter i still have feelings for him,and he will be 25 in may and we have known each other for about 4 to 5 years. hes in another state i had to move so that makes it really hard to talk to him about things right now.
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| 4/7/2008 8:28:47 AM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
upsydasy
Montreal, QC
age: 49
| Take it easy, it sounds like he's got commitment issues. Try not being so available. Go out with friends, get a hobby or 2 or 3, join a gym. Then over time, he may decide that he misses your company and realize that you have needs too.
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| 4/7/2008 8:47:38 AM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
thickncute7
Saginaw, MI
age: 20
| yea thanks, ive been keeping myself busy and he beens trying to get a hold of me but ima wait to see where he stands and how much he cares. i kno he cares its just i wanna kno how he feels really.
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| 4/7/2008 9:29:54 AM | can anyone help me out with something?!?!?! | |
susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
| From Impressive: Men do take a little while fall for a lady, and alotta times, they dont realize it even when they do til its too late and shes long, long, looooong gone, with no chance in hell of ever gettin her back.
From me: Took my ex 2.5 seconds to find his new greatest love. Oh wait....he wasn't a man, he was a SCUMBAG. My bad...LOL
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