bigsoftyjoey
Happy Valley, OR
age: 48
| The dating scene is new to me.....haven't dated since the dawn of time..So when it comes to pay for a romantic meal, who pays? The male or female or go "dutch"? Hit me up...
BigSoftyJoey
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freeskier
Thornhill, ON
age: 20
| f*ck m if they cant pay they aint real ladys. paying can be big or smal its all how u look at it . dont pay ur a sucker if ya do
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
| Hey Joe, be the gentleman and just pay. It's a small price to pay for the company of a fine lady.
If she insists on paying half, then let her if you like. Just don't expect it. I generally turn down such offers, but have had a few insist on paying half or leaving the tip. If that's the case, accept graciously.
Hope you find that fine lady.
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
| The rule of thumb is if you ask you pay.
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
| freeskier,
I was raised that the Gentleman pays and I do believe it's the right thing to do. By your post I do not consider you a Gentleman so do it your way. It goes without saying that you will not have the chance to meet any women of quality. You reap what you sow as the saying goes.
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trance08
Boulder, CO
age: 44
| The male pays for it all.
Never spend less than 100 bucks. She is worth
it.
Don't be cheap, women are special, cherish them.
(all you women owe me big time for this one)
[Edited 4/6/2008 9:55:10 PM]
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freeskier
Thornhill, ON
age: 20
| gentelmn or sucker. if u start with paying then what i your price. it gives the wrong msg. if ur a millionair then u pay. but if ur average joe. and u think 100 is nothing or a small price the she usually does too. if she is such a snob and thinks your money is to be used for gestures than f*ck her.
gentle men open doors . give jackets they dont buy love.. u think that beacue u paid u get liad. or she likes u more . ur worng...
she dont give a royla f*ck . if u got game she will pay willingly .. do be a sucker. raise the bar for use all and make her pay or make dinner for u and bring a bottle of wine to dinner at her house if she cooks
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worhtlesswisdom
Dade City, FL
age: 41
| The man should at least pick up the tab for the first month of dating, after that, if the women volunteers to pay, I would not mind, but would not insist upon it.
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