4/9/2008 9:22:30 PMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

chickadee283
Kitchener, ON
age: 44


I have been dating/ seeing a guy i met online for the past 8 months, I admit I was klingy,as he had added me at a very vunerable time in my life. I fell in love with him. He was not interested in a relationship and I knew this but we did have sex a few times. I drove him away because of my klingyness and he resorted to telling me he was married, his neighbour was posing as his wife . I was devastated and still am.I thought it was completely over. Here is the issue.. he has started to talk to me again,I am not sure what to do.. I still have strong feelings for him.

4/9/2008 9:28:28 PMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88


His neighbor was posing as his wife?
Does he have an affair going on with her?

Ohhhh be ever so careful....antennas are up for a reason..
self protection...

Have you met anyone else to have dates with?

Wine

4/10/2008 5:24:55 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 57


Ha Ha don't be giving up the sex lol might just be looking for what evers out there.

4/10/2008 5:29:36 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57


Now this is a Red Flag....neighbor posing as wife Lose this guy, quick, what next he rents Kids to pretend to be his. You can do better, see this for what it is, a guy just out to get Laid, and MOVE ON. jmo

4/10/2008 5:40:33 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 61


You have just finished reading a book that had a very sad, tragic, unhappy ending.

You can:

1. Put it on your bookshelf.
2. Give it to children, a friend, a school or the public library, or
3. Read it again.

In reading it again, do not expect to be surprised by the same sad, tragic, unhappy ending. On the other hand, if you prefer to experience happiness for yourself, chose a different book. You have a choice. Choose wisely.

4/10/2008 5:50:14 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
age: 48


RUN LIKE HELL AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4/10/2008 6:59:22 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
brujacakes
Albrightsville, PA
age: 36


It has never made any sense to me to move backwards in life, the possibilities for what lies ahead are much more exciting.


4/10/2008 7:07:35 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

gapeach7777
Ball Ground, GA
age: 36


Ask him what the hell is he doing back. Move on to a great guy.

4/10/2008 7:10:01 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47 online now!


He's not comimg back.He went thru a lot of trouble to chase you.He may come back on a nightly basis when he's lonely but not for good.That will stop when you stop it.

4/10/2008 7:11:45 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!


You have just finished reading a book that had a very sad, tragic, unhappy ending.

You can:

1. Put it on your bookshelf.
2. Give it to children, a friend, a school or the public library, or
3. Read it again.

In reading it again, do not expect to be surprised by the same sad, tragic, unhappy ending. On the other hand, if you prefer to experience happiness for yourself, chose a different book. You have a choice. Choose wisely.


That's an awesome analogy!

4/10/2008 7:12:40 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
lonely37
South Australia
Australia
age: 38


sweet , dont give in to him, be friends if you want but nothing else, he has to earn it that he is not going to freak out because you really like him,please hon dont give into him

4/10/2008 7:14:13 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51


Leave them to themselves and continue to live your own life . And hope they leave you alone .
He will twist your feelings to his advantage .
He already did it once ,he'll do it again .

4/10/2008 7:17:01 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46


davewave you should be king.............three cheers.

4/10/2008 7:58:36 AMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60


Neighbor posing as his wife????

This guy had a good thing in you and lost it. Don't give a loser a second chance, g/f. My "bad boy" alarm bells are ringing off the hook here.

My ex called me "hunnie" several times a few days ago. Made me sick! Next time he does it, I will correct him PROMPTLY. My name is Susan. Not hunnie, Sue, princess, b*tch, controlling b*tch, etc. It is Susan.

Tell your ex to take his story walking!

4/10/2008 7:23:37 PMWhat to do when he comes back after ending the relationship ? 

chickadee283
Kitchener, ON
age: 44


thanks for all the wonderful input so far everyone that i have talked to about this has said the same thing... drop him or free sex .. don't want to loose that lmao :S now I just need to convince my heart of that :S thats a little easier said then done ... my brain gets it .. but why is it so hard to forget with your heart ?