| 4/10/2008 1:28:26 PM | Women responding to men | |
flash1987
Lincolnton, NC
age: 54
| Is it just me, or is it too much for someone to let you know something? If you meet, and seem to hit it off, are you being kind to the person by never replying back again. I am starting to get a complex!!!!
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| 4/10/2008 1:33:51 PM | Women responding to men | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| I would give the person a courtesy of responding back....atleast stating that i am disinterested or have found somebody else that I think is a better match and wish the person good luck...Don't take it personal if you never hear from her again...its happened to me before and Im sure everyone else too...just continue the search and good luck.
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| 4/10/2008 1:35:52 PM | Women responding to men | |
dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 56
| I would say that is a good indication she does not want any further contact...
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| 4/10/2008 1:39:43 PM | Women responding to men | |
winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
| Hi Sagi man...(read your profile)
no it is not just you...
We Sagi people are very direct, and tell it like it is.
Not all people are able to be open...and forthright,
they are fearful of offending another person.
People either like Sagi personalities, or they cannot
afford to hear the truth, when it is looking at them.
They avoid us. We should avoid these people...we need
humor, harmony, and forthright speaking from the heart and mind.
We are who we are..life of the party often, risk takers,
and water flows off our back...like a duck out of water...
Wine
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| 4/10/2008 2:29:45 PM | Women responding to men | |
raven01
Lumberton, TX
age: 45
| I've got a s*** load of those who wont tell you "not interested". They want you to talk to them....then for whatever reason....just stop talking. They come in all shapes...sizes...colors...and ages.
I ask people upon first speaking....that if they don't wanna talk for any reason....at any time...to just be curtious enough to tell me. Don't wanna be called a stalker or a nut job. They promise they will.....and don't.
Don't take it personal...those are usually the players anyway....and you don't want that....and you deserve better.
NOT ALL OF US ARE RIGHT FOR THE ONES WE TALK TO. Those who are on my personal IM list of friends...I drop a line to every once in a while...just to say hello. Some of them never speak to you again...while others realize that you're a better person than they gave you credit for. While others....come back crawling and asking for forgiveness and want another chance.
Chin up.....and move on. SHE IS OUT THERE....JUST BE PATIENT.
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| 4/10/2008 2:36:21 PM | Women responding to men | |
sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 48
| Well I personally think either gender that does this is really in need of some serious bowel care...
I always let the guy know usually before the end of the first date. If there is going to be a second one. If I am not sure by then I am by the next morning. I then will not do it in a tacky email either I will call him.
Let him know why I don't feel it is a good idea. Since It usually is me and I
sure don't want him thinking it is him.
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| 4/10/2008 3:34:19 PM | Women responding to men | |
towtrk1
Groton, CT
age: 36
| If I had a dollar for every time I got "blown off", I could afford to go get rejected by eHarmony!!
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| 4/10/2008 3:36:46 PM | Women responding to men | |
ldt
Houma, LA
age: 41
| now who would blow you off tow, just show them those pics you have...
they are sure to stick around then.
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| 4/10/2008 3:38:09 PM | Women responding to men | |
towtrk1
Groton, CT
age: 36
| now, now... dont go lettin' the cat outta the bag, Girl!!
that was called "Men responding to women".. hehehe
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| 4/10/2008 3:38:57 PM | Women responding to men | |
flash1987
Lincolnton, NC
age: 54
| thanks for the good word mark
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| 4/10/2008 3:40:46 PM | Women responding to men | |
flash1987
Lincolnton, NC
age: 54
| you are very much on target mark
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| 4/10/2008 3:41:50 PM | Women responding to men | |
flash1987
Lincolnton, NC
age: 54
| thank you you are so sweet mark
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| 4/10/2008 3:42:16 PM | Women responding to men | |
flash1987
Lincolnton, NC
age: 54
| there is still hope....
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| 4/10/2008 3:55:55 PM | Women responding to men | |
jewels180
Bronx, NY
age: 46
| if they don't respond ... then I don't think they did hit it off 
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| 4/10/2008 9:42:43 PM | Women responding to men | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| I would respond back if you both hit it off. By not responding back then you are saying that you've lost interest
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