| 4/10/2008 7:54:15 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
njman
Jersey City, NJ
age: 49
| what kind of a relationship do you have with your x ? is it good , bad, friends , ok, do u respect each other ? hate each other, how do you see your x.
personally my x is the mother of my two amazing beatifull lovely, sweet daughters,for me she is a family for ever, we wont live togother again as husbond and wife any more, but we are very close, she calls me all the time, i call her all the time, she tells me about my kids and i ask her about them, i always call them whenever i go to a supermarket or a whole sale club, to see if they need any thing, they also bring me food some times, and they all have keys to my apartment , they offer me a copy of their keys but i didnt take it, we are family, seperate but we ARE family.
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| 4/10/2008 7:56:09 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
happily47
New Middletown, OH
age: 48
| you are a very luck man. we are not all that fortunate.
as for me and mine, i try to keep us on track for my daughter's sake, but i do not accept him running my life anymore.
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| 4/10/2008 7:56:25 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 47
| He's residing in a cremation jar so I say the relationship is fabulous!
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| 4/10/2008 7:58:28 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
harley68
San Antonio, TX
age: 39
| My ex and I are great friends. I talk to him at least once a week. 
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| 4/10/2008 8:06:47 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
mommaloma
Searcy, AR
age: 34
| That's great that y'all can get along like that. Being civil to each other is especially healthy for the children to see.
As for my X, we are civil to each other, but unfortunately, right now I don't have much respect for him, as I feel betrayed that he walked out on his family. I just don't understand how that is an option in his mind.
Maybe one day we will be able to commuicate and get along like you and your X, but our marriage has just recently ended, so I guess we have to get past the initial pain and anger.
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| 4/10/2008 8:11:45 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
njman
Jersey City, NJ
age: 49
| hapilly
metu
iamm really sorry to hear that, the point is when there is kids in the middle, i cant imagine any parnt would jeoperdise his kids life by hurting their mother or father, especially if the other part truelly love his kids who are your's too, the good relaqtiosnship with the x makes the kids happier and stable emotionally, financially and socially, its the only way to raise healthy children.
harely iam happy for you , it feels great when you know that your x is a good person and is taking care of your preciouse children right ?? 
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| 4/10/2008 8:14:32 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 47
| Um.....what? I didn't breed with that beast! 
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| 4/10/2008 8:16:04 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
njman
Jersey City, NJ
age: 49
| mommaloma
it takes time, when we used to live with each other, entering my house was like going into hell, and it took me few months to see the picture form a distant,and to see my kids, now i know that she is agreat mother, she loves MY children more than any thing in the owrld and she SHARES this great passion with me, i dont see her other than FAMILY, you both will reach this point, its just takes some time.
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| 4/10/2008 8:21:32 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Can't say I miss her, of coarse she hasn't gotten into range yet 
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| 4/10/2008 8:23:25 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
mommaloma
Searcy, AR
age: 34
| njman, I know you're right. I just wish the time thing would hurry up! Maybe just fast forward 6 months.
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| 4/10/2008 8:26:52 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
| njman, I am blessed with a similar situation. My X is terrific to the girls and treats them very well. I can trust him implicitly with their care. We will always be family, but more like cousin kind of feelings if you know what I mean.
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| 4/10/2008 8:33:40 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| Hats off to Metu, again, as usual.
As for myself, I could really care less about my ex. She was a liar and almost destroyed everything. She hasn't changed a bit. Self centered and always trying to work a monetary angle with somebody. She's even scammed her sons. What a frickin' loser! Who goes to their three sons ans says, "Well, I figured you guys would have to help me out sooner or later." ? What's wrong with that picture?
ex
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| 4/10/2008 9:10:52 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
philleast
La Vergne, TN
age: 50
| MeTu your post always make me 
Kids of any kind your own or your grand kids in my case sorta sure up a realtionship or so they should I would think if for no other reason but their sanity
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| 4/10/2008 9:21:06 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| our relationship is kinda like it was when we were married.at times she goes off on tangents and spews out stuff i don't even know what she's talkin about.other times,she takes her meds and it's all good.aww....sweet memories
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| 4/10/2008 9:21:27 PM | your x how is your relationship ?? | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| My 1st X and I have a son together so we keep in contact regarding him. My 2nd X don't talk at all. No need too 
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