| 4/11/2008 9:48:52 AM | Where is the romance | |
hotmama3456
Tucson, AZ
age: 47
| I want to know what is so big about sex when you dont know the person you sleep with. I want the old fashion wine and dine , a good talk, and let things happen as they will!
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| 4/11/2008 9:50:59 AM | Where is the romance | |
worhtlesswisdom
Dade City, FL
age: 41
| There is nothing big about sex. Sex is meant to be used for reproduction only. Unfortunately society has made it a sport.
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| 4/11/2008 9:53:13 AM | Where is the romance | |
hotmama3456
Tucson, AZ
age: 47
| thank you. love should be made when you are sure your in love not like animals!
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| 4/11/2008 9:54:00 AM | Where is the romance | |
trance08
Boulder, CO
age: 44
| .
I am very romantic. I just need to find a woman that enjoys romance.
[Edited 4/11/2008 3:02:18 PM]
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| 4/11/2008 10:27:23 AM | Where is the romance | |
thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
| Are we talking about sex? What is sex? Why talk about something that deep down pretty much everyone likes. Why even worry about it?
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| 4/11/2008 11:44:36 AM | Where is the romance | |
st3v3
Mahanoy City, PA
age: 32
| I have had both types of relationships.. I agree that while the quick one is heated.. it is also nice to wait. I don't mean for like a year .. but a girl that respects herself to hold out a bit is VERY NICE.
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| 4/11/2008 12:55:33 PM | Where is the romance | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| I think sex is one of the greatest joys of life. I think it had to be or we probably wouldn't have been such an evolutionary success. I think it's ingrained in our genetic makeup. It might seem just a biological function to some, but when you combine the mental aspects of sex with the physical, i think can be a lot more than just a procreation act. I think the brain is the biggest sex organ. A quick wham bam thank you ma'am might satisfy the physical side of it, but then you miss out on the whole mental side. I think if your with the right person, someone you love, someone who is your best friend, someone you cherish respect and admire, sex just makes things better. Icing on the cake. I think it's an important part of any relationship. I think it should be a mutual desire thing. I dont think it's a bad thing to inspire, tempt, seduce your partner. If you think about it who's gonna benefit from that? So romance is important. Anything that makes your other feel warm, happy, comfortable, desired, loved, and yeah horny is a good thing. I think sex should be much more than just a biological function. I think if your leaving out the brain with sex your missing out on all the best things.
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| 4/11/2008 1:02:49 PM | Where is the romance | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| To avoid confusion with my last post, i gotta add.
I think sex is an obstacle in finding the right person to have a relationship with.
I think you should save the sex till your already in a relationship. One based firmly on friendship, common interests and goals.
If you rush into the sex part, before you have found the right person.. you will probably be distracted by the "sex" relationship and i think this just distracts you from the friendship relationship you might have found in the meantime.
So while i think sex is the greatest thing to happen to mankind (womenkind too). I think it has it's time and place. I think sex can be a good very healthy thing or bad very dangerous thing, depending on who your having with and why.
I think sex is like a glue. Use it too early you might end up stuck to the wrong person. But when it's with the right person i think it just makes you closer.
[Edited 4/11/2008 1:38:53 PM]
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| 4/11/2008 1:05:16 PM | Where is the romance | |
57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
| AMEN!
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| 4/11/2008 1:11:51 PM | Where is the romance | |
jewels180
Bronx, NY
age: 46
| hey fryyyy, RIGHT ON SWEETY!!  
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| 4/11/2008 1:12:04 PM | Where is the romance | |
oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 47
| I dunno.
To me, sex can cheapen an otherwise great relationship: it raises the question of whether all the physical expressions of affection, hand holding, gentle caresses, kisses innocent and then with a hint of passion, were just a ruse to try to seduce one's partner in order to get laid.
With a relative stranger? Ewwwww.
[Edited 4/11/2008 1:44:57 PM]
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| 4/11/2008 1:52:27 PM | Where is the romance | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| hehe yah your right oldschoolcharm .. with a stranger.
but what if it's your spouse or your life partner?? I cant see how seducing your spouse has any losers. Seems pretty win win to me. I'd WANT my spouse to desire lust etc after me. Even if i wasnt in the "mood" I dont see anything wrong with her trying to get me there. She's my spouse not a stranger. She's my best friend. there's more than just "sex" to start with. She might be seducing me to get laid but i'm sure i'd be a co conspirator in that, at least i would be in very short time. She wouldn't be some stranger. This would just be above and beyond anything else. And seducing your spouse would mean getting her interest and desires to where she wants the same thing at the same time. I think this would be preferable over wham bam for one of us.
I just don't see any evil in this.. or any losers.
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| 4/11/2008 1:58:44 PM | Where is the romance | |
oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
age: 47
| Sorry, seduction strikes me as deceiptful. The last person I'd want to seduce is someone I care for. It smacks of "I'm only doing this to get you in the mood to give me what I want."
And, I'd be really disappointed if someone I cared for tried to seduce me because she was "in the mood". Geez, talk about using another person, and taking advantage of a relationship.
Now, an innocent caress, cuddle, or hug with someone dear to me that progresses, without any preconceived agenda with that in mind, to more, is a completely different thing.
[Edited 4/11/2008 2:17:22 PM]
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| 4/11/2008 2:08:16 PM | Where is the romance | |
jmg2000
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 27
| you need to find the romance
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| 4/11/2008 2:16:45 PM | Where is the romance | |
wino631
Huntington, NY
age: 53
| When sex was new and exciting, like a new car. You couldn't wait to drive it. And hell you were young, so the other persons feelings really didn't come into play.
Now that we're older, and have been in relationships, that have been hurtful. You want to make sure that you don't mislead the other person. Being Romantic, is fun, but it can give a person the wrong idea. So, don't go there unless you mean it.! Roses anyone?
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