| 4/11/2008 2:23:00 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
lildevil19
Dothan, AL
age: 19
| Why is it when you meet what seems to be a nice guy and you talk he is so mean?
  
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| 4/11/2008 2:25:29 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
lildevil19
Dothan, AL
age: 19
| I guess noone knows
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| 4/11/2008 2:27:20 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
rlynn_1
Hedgesville, WV
age: 39
| my c*ck made me do it!
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| 4/11/2008 2:39:18 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| If you mean why are some people so mean somtimes. there can be a lot of reasons, usually none of them are good. Ego and percepltion are two of the worst. Some thing they are so perfect that they can intimidate you with the "I'm Bad", theyr'e jerks leave them alone.
Perception: he's from one side of the tracks, you are from the other, what seems to be cool on one side of town, on the other side is scarey, If it don't work for you leave it alone and find someone who is more what youre looking for. If it don't click, time to split
[Edited 4/11/2008 2:39:46 PM]
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| 4/11/2008 2:42:49 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
trance08
Boulder, CO
age: 44
| People are mean.
I am sorry, I am guilty of being mean. It is one of those mysteries.
I find people think they are allowed to be mean online, cause it isn't real
to them. I try hard, not to get caught up in the mean stuff, but
sometimes I can be an ass. I realize this, it is just part of who I
am.
[Edited 4/11/2008 2:46:32 PM]
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| 4/11/2008 2:50:31 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| I think when you first meet someone who is attracted to you, they are on their best behavior. They want you to like them, but they have no hold on you at all. Then as time progresses they begin to feel secure in their relationship with you and begin to take you for granted. Then their best behavior starts to dissipate.. and you start seeing a side of them that they have been careful to conceal up to that point. I think this is one reason "friends first" is so important. You get to know someone without any strings. I think all initial attraction is based on superficial things.. that's all that you can see or know about someone. Until you have spent time getting to know them, buyer beware.
If you like this guy, you can tell him how he hurt you, how you feel. If he cares he won't do it again. If he doesn't care that's fine too.. go find someone that does. If you think he's just a mean callous uncaring person to others besides you.. I'd move on too..
How he treats others.. that have no benefit to him by treating them nice. will give you a good indication of whats in your future if he ever starts taking you for granted.
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| 4/11/2008 2:52:31 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
| Because for some people, it's harder to be nice.......
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| 4/11/2008 2:56:11 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
ru2timid
Rockford, IL
age: 46
| lildevil... life gets better but we both know that both sexes can be this way...
I found a little saying for you... hope you enjoy the humor.
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| 4/11/2008 5:46:18 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
| *HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWLLLL*
*pant pant pant pant*
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| 4/11/2008 5:49:36 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
epiphany4me
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 47
| I believe some people are just naturally
mean, and enjoy being so.
We all have moods and sometimes a bad mood
can lead to MEAN behavior. So the best answer
I can come up with is 
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| 4/11/2008 5:53:33 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
| If he was purposely mean when you met him in person, he is probably a mean person that you should walk away from. No one has to be mean if they don't want to. I think you have a choice. Bad mood or not.
Even when you are mad at your spouse---well, when I had one--you know the limitations in an argument. You don't ever want to say something you can't take back. Words can hurt...especially those you love and who love you.
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| 4/11/2008 5:56:50 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 47
| Interesting they didn't wait until you were hooked on them. A player waits until you have an attachment to them before their true self comes out. It's hard to keep up the show for too long so after while something has to give.
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| 4/11/2008 5:57:29 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
polodave
Poway, CA
age: 46
| The same reason boys pull little girls hair, Its not right, I think it has more to do with fear and they are not ready for a healthy relationship. Time to move on, and say next. they are not for you... You deserve better.
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| 4/11/2008 6:00:06 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
kittyriffic
Georgetown, FL
age: 52
| I think Daddyduck is onto something. I like his wisdom and I agree with what he said.
Unfortunately for me, mean guys are attracted to me. It takes me a while to figure out they are mean because they hide it at first....but then it soon becomes a habit with them. When I see the first signs of mean......I can't run away fast enough. 
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| 4/11/2008 6:00:51 PM | Why are guys mean sometimes | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| guys just like girls have the ability to be mean
that's why there's a movie, a book about "mean girls"
hopefully given your profile's age - they'll grow out of it...
But knowing that men have the ability to be an asshole and admit it, makes me think I should revise my profile again.
Should I admit to being a b*tch?
I'm not.
If I have the inclination or the feeling of revealing an inner b*tch - generally, I am adult enough to curb it, and move through it without acting on the desire...
No clue why others cannot do the same...most of the time.
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