| 4/11/2008 4:10:18 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
kateylady
North Liberty, IA
age: 27
| I end up in bad relationships each time. I like a certain kind of man but they are always the same even when they seem to be different!
How can I learn to like a new type of man that won't value his material possessions over my child and I life or treat us as though we are invisible? Anyone got suggestions? 
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| 4/11/2008 4:15:05 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
| kateylady, Good ? 
I'll be waiting to see the answers on this also, if there is any.
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| 4/11/2008 4:24:02 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
blondie3044
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 36
| write down over 100 qualities you find desirable in a man, then here is the kicker, do you have them and don't settle for less than that.
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| 4/11/2008 4:28:32 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
luvbreeze
Boiling Springs, SC
age: 53
|  PLease let me in on the secret.... 
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| 4/11/2008 4:44:33 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
gr8stwoman
Napa, CA
age: 41
| First, don't "beat yourself up" because you've ended up in bad relationships. It happens to the best of us.
Think about the qualities you really want in a man and then ask yourself what type of woman that man would want to be with. Is that you? When I first started asking myself that question, I had to admit to myself that the answer was "no." Then, I began making changes to fit what I'm seeking. The majority of men I encounter now are very quality people.
Consider keeping a journal; you will be able to see what "mistakes" you've made in the past and you will become much faster at recognizing them, even when they are disguised differently.
Finally, I'm not going to pretend to have all the answers because I certainly do not. However, if I can impart anything that has helped me through the years, that's all I hope to do.
Only the best to you in your search!
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| 4/11/2008 4:56:37 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
| maybe it's mr. wrong that's the issue! maybe it's the selection process that needs to b revamped. JMO
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| 4/11/2008 4:59:28 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 40
| I think we gotta figure out the common denominator in our previous failed relationships. I myself am pretty sure that I have only been serious with women with really bizzarre names. I am not kidding.
Seriously......
Desrah....cheated
Elvira....cheated
Nilka.....wanted me to convert to catholosizm and move to Puerto Rico
Tresa.....married a good friend (with my blessing...I was thier best man)
Shawnalee..cheated
I swear, if I could just hook up with a woman with a regular name my curse might be lifted. Just a thought.
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| 4/11/2008 5:12:30 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
ptriley
Staten Island, NY
age: 47
| It might be time to take a good look inside youreself
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| 4/11/2008 5:13:15 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
| I've resolved to pass up men named Tom....very bad luck for me. Davids don't work out so well either. So any other name...might have a chance. lol
I agree if we look for traits in someone, we should have them as well.
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| 4/11/2008 5:17:52 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
ladybug2786
Bridgeport, MI
age: 43
| well i havn't figured that out myself yet.
dale-cheated
keith-abused
randy-married me for money
steve- needed a place to stay
when you find out what the secret is let me in on it.
still searching for mr right.
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| 4/11/2008 5:24:52 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
| that eazy stop looking for those pertty boy types .
cause what many know but don't seem to understand is that if he are she look so good that they set a spark within you . chance are that there is lots more beside you he is doing that to . and 9 out of 10 befor you there was already someone there .
most want the very man are woman they shouldn't
the other problem that i have seen is that when a man are woman look so good some forget the most important thing and that is you over look the red flags
some time people try to settle for more and in up with less
i settle for less and that way i'll find more . we all should not go after but these thing only and that is how will he are she will treat me when the fire is gone
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| 4/11/2008 5:26:05 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42
| Hey Krupa my name is supercalifragilisticexpialidocious........want to see what happens??
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| 4/11/2008 5:27:27 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45
| When you become tired of feeling the crummy way you feel after the good feeling is gone
when you get tired of being betrayed, cheated on, alone, beat up - what ever
when you can finally look at your life and say "I want MORE than this"
then you'll break it yourself.
Otherwise - maybe you have no desire to break it.
We all have choices.
You make your own choice - at all times.
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| 4/11/2008 5:29:12 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
babygoth
Washington, MO
age: 18
| look to tell u the truth u dont trust me my man just left me and now i have no were to live and i mean just left and to tell u the truth i am still tryin to find some one good but cant so stop lookin and let them find u that is all i can say for real and the best of luck
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| 4/11/2008 5:29:57 PM | How do I break the cycle of choosing Mr. Wrong? | |
monkeylover
Ogden, UT
age: 28
| FIRST YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF WHAT IS IT IN YOUR PAST THAT ATTRACTS YOU TO THESE KIND MAN.
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