| 4/12/2008 6:55:22 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
curious70000
Wyandotte, MI
age: 46
| Mine calls all the time, i might answer the calls every 2 months, i feel, and have been told he continues to call for he is waiting for me to have a weak moment and let him back into my life on some level? I admit sometimes when i'm bored i think about him.
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| 4/12/2008 6:56:12 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
| NO!!
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| 4/12/2008 6:57:38 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
| God no! I'd much rather be lonesome.
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| 4/12/2008 7:01:17 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
adelinesmother
Fremont, NE
age: 38
| Nope.
Cant move forward if you keep taking steps back...jmo
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| 4/12/2008 7:03:48 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
| classy, they all wanna be lonesome....
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| 4/12/2008 7:15:45 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54
| not in this life time or any other
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| 4/12/2008 7:19:25 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
bocabrat
Boca Raton, FL
age: 41
|  NO WAY!  
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| 4/12/2008 7:23:02 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
bry11ca
Wyandotte, MI
age: 43
| Never "Hooking Up" as in sex but I've had my Cop bro suggest . . . um, well . . . Hooking Her Up . . .
He wanted me to Sick my Possey on her . . . JK, he's waaaaaaaaaayyyy 
not my style though . . .
I'm more into
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| 4/12/2008 7:26:12 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
soulcrazy
San Clemente, CA
age: 39
| Nope... there is a reason the relationship ended. If they couldn't work with me to work it out before it got to that point then there is no going backwards. When its over... its over.
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| 4/12/2008 7:34:15 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
steelkittey
Hermiston, OR
age: 34
| I am newly single. It has been very hard for me. The decision was my ex's and I can't seem to let go. My ex called me and wanted to talk. I went over to his place...one thing led to another..well, it was the worst thing I could have ever done. I just opened all the wounds I work so hard to heal. Hooking Up with an ex is just asking to gert hurt all over again.
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| 4/12/2008 8:20:22 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
nibblediver
Monticello, MN
age: 45
| With my ex, I thought our love could outgrow her anxiety for being in a previously abusive relationship.
All the tender moments, all the growth we went through, having children and raising a family... Working our butts off.
But in the end I wasn't the one capable of fixing her. Granted, it wasn't my task but it was a part of the supportive factor in our relationship that we needed to reconstruct from the ground up.
I think we tried valiantly, but it just wasn't meant to be. For 12 years 'that issue' wasn't really even on the surface, but I think deep down we both worked hard on being there for each other and once we had children a lot of our energy was consumed. I do feel she was overwhelmed and though I put in a huge effort it just wasn't enough.
I found myself worn out emotionally, physically and mentally. Likewise she did too. All the apologizing, all the picking up the pieces... All the distance it created.
The amount of money she rakes in from child support without having to be married to me... What do you think... Think she'd ever want to get back together? (Odd sarcasm...) lol
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| 4/12/2008 8:25:10 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42 online now!
| Nope. Life is like an all you can eat buffet. Like X's stay clear of the foods that can give you botulism 
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| 4/12/2008 11:27:26 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
kateylady
North Liberty, IA
age: 28
| I have done that with 2 of my ex's and both times it has turned out with me having to find another place to live for my daughter and I and have to suffer with them parading their newbies around, plus kicking myself for not trusting my intuition.
They only call back or try to get back together because they know you and are familiar with your relationship patterns. They also know they can twist you around their fingers with no consequences to them & drop you again when it becomes too much of a hassle.
DON'T DO IT NO MATTER HOW HAPPY IT MAY MAKE YOU FEEL!!
The definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over again expecting different results.
I know this definition by heart, but I must really be insane because I forget it when I'm waiting for a different result! 
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| 4/12/2008 11:49:12 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
bry11ca
Wyandotte, MI
age: 43
| I totally agre KatyLady (nice name) . . . . now . . . .
How BOUT a little head . . . does that count
   Bad Bry
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| 4/12/2008 11:59:59 AM | Have you ever thought of hooking back up with an ex? | |
chrislyn
La Porte, TX
age: 34
| I guess it depends on how much of an ex he is. If we are broke up due to certain issues, yes, I would think about hooking back up. Once I have made the ULTIMATE decision to move on, no, there is no chance in hell. It is just hard to get guys to realize when they are playing you that you are capable of that. No matter how much you love them, they can stomp your love to shreds...eventually. I am extremely patient but when you reach DONE, I am done. Sorry. That is when the prince changes back into the frog and doesn't appear so sexy or desirable to me any more! Instead of wanting to be your partner and being willing to conquer all with you, I will see you for what you truly have been all along and then, no I don't want any part of it.
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