| 4/14/2008 10:58:09 AM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
mssofia
Salem, OR
age: 44
| I agree with Rasorback - as long as you keep playing the game you can keep expecting to loose. Sometimes you need to quit trying to figure out what is wrong with the other person and figure out why you make the choices you do.
If you find yourself getting into these kind of predicaments often you should consider researching co-dependency.
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| 4/14/2008 6:12:37 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
cookers007
Wauconda, IL
age: 42
| HE A PLAYER  SNAP OUT OF IT................LIFE IS TO SHORT FOR GAMES.........
TAKE CARE,
BOB
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| 4/14/2008 6:17:23 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
latina67218
Wichita, KS
age: 42
| DUMP HIM FOR GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!he sounds like a user...he will use you as many times as you let him and kick you to the curb when he is done...i would imagine you deserve better don't you.?  
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| 4/16/2008 7:53:08 AM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
sassy1177
Streator, IL
age: 34
| thank you all he finally got the hint .i told him i'm not playing his games any more and to leave me alone! haven't heard anything from him. i feel so free right now. thanks again for all the advice. done with the games! 
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| 4/16/2008 10:13:08 AM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
yanks118
Moab, UT
age: 25
| tell him where to firmly plant his lips upon your ass, and don't talk to him anymore!
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| 4/16/2008 10:48:38 AM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
sassy1177
Streator, IL
age: 34
| i did. now he has a page here too. so watch out . his screenname is nascar8888. just to warn everyone!
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| 4/16/2008 11:27:24 AM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
worhtlesswisdom
Dade City, FL
age: 41
| Nah stay with him. Give him a little, have him get you pregnant, sue him for child support, and clean him out dry. That will teach him. Ah the power of the p*ssy, so beautiful yet so vicious. No wonder the Black Widow spider is so dangerous.
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| 4/16/2008 11:53:23 AM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
| I would go against "FWB's". The reason why is while your FFB's your going to be expending time energy and part of yourself on a dead end. You seem to be on a different page than this guy. So if I were you, I'd tell him good by. This probably wont be easy, if you think you love him it wont be easy at all. You might try just "friends" without benefits.. but i doubt you can do that either, because i think you have already crossed a line. The line between friends and more than friends. FWB's means no strings and will probably mean he will see other woman at ANY opportunity. And that would be with benefits there too.. exposing you to a lot of risk and heartbreak. Plus at some point he'll probably move on.. some point like the first chance he gets.
Sooooo.. sorry to advise this... but the fwb stuff dont work for me. So i'd say say goodby to him, before he makes you a bigger mess than you are now.
I think you should use your time and energy to find a friend without benefits, one you can grow to trust, cherish and mabye eventually love. When you find this friend that feels the same way about you, I think you will be glad you got rid of this garbage in your life now.
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| 4/16/2008 12:08:04 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
sassy1177
Streator, IL
age: 34
| well i'm safe now. he set his page to privet. so don't worry about him no more. and i blocked him befor he set it that way !thanks for the comments.
[Edited 4/16/2008 10:04:26 PM]
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