| 4/12/2008 2:21:22 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
sassy1177
Streator, IL
age: 33
| ok i meet someone that lived in denver and he was from cali. well i went out to visit him for a week and after i left he went back to cali. well i went out there like 3 times. and he came back here 1 time . well febuary of 2007 he moved here. and in with me. well he lived with me for 4 months and moved out saying he don't know what he wants. then he calls me and says he wants to be friends with benifits. and he has broken my heart so many times . i just don't know what to do? help me please? 
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| 4/12/2008 2:26:23 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
| Time to move on... you deserve better than that!
Peace!
P.Win
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| 4/12/2008 2:28:42 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
sassy1177
Streator, IL
age: 33
| thank you win. i told him today the samething i told my kids dad. i WILL FIND BETTER! and i also told him either he wants me or not let me know so i can move on.
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| 4/12/2008 2:34:06 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
mrwally2007
Fort Smith, AR
age: 45
| Well let's see
They move in
They put up with the
good and the bad,
are there for you
when you need them.
You are there for
them. A little tail whenever
you want it.
They move out
a little tail whenever you want it.
Do what your heart tells you to do.
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| 4/12/2008 2:41:57 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
ilovcole
Port Richey, FL
age: 27
| Do I even have to tell you? Move on and tell him to get lost! If you stay friends with him in any mannner it will only make you feel worse. Run far away from him, he's just using you. Do you want to be used? Do you like feeling like shit? I doubt it so move on.
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| 4/12/2008 2:49:45 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
ustohim
Evans, CO
age: 33
| I had something close to this. I moved someone here to colorado. I felt that she was cheating on me! one day she left for work and I did not see or hear from her in 14 hours. I called the hospital, police, what ever I could to see if she was hurt or dead. ( she liked to drink and drive in my car) did not hear anything I call and reported my car stolen and my credit cards. she came home about 20 hours later and played it as if nothing happened. after that all her stuff was tossed in the yard after we got 3 feet of snow. and told her that it was over and she needs to get her stuff. I never looked back and I did the right thing move on it is not worth the pain. 
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| 4/12/2008 2:57:57 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
| You are welcome.... but promise me you won't leave it up to him....- Look inside yourself and "Choose" for you....
good luck! I'll keep you in my prayers!
Peace!
P.Win
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| 4/12/2008 3:22:51 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 61
| "Oats, alfalfa and hay can only pass through the horse once, after which they are no longer edible."
And so it is with a singular Love....
[Edited 4/12/2008 3:23:40 PM]
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| 4/12/2008 3:24:10 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
kittyriffic
Georgetown, FL
age: 52
| I wouldn't give him the choice....I would chose for myself...and based on his past performance.......bye, bye bye....don't look back, and count your blessings that you ended sooner than later.
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| 4/12/2008 3:29:29 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
missyrose
Oakwood, GA
age: 36
| been there done that...you have a heart of gold and he knows that...don't let him take advantage of you...you wouldn't let some man do that to your daughter when she is older would you? naw...too many guys out there that would be there for you. heart and soul.and help out financially too
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| 4/12/2008 3:36:38 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
emeraldjewel
South Park, PA
age: 53
| Ditch him, he's a user and a LOSER
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| 4/12/2008 4:30:53 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
l2kids44
Lanesville, IN
age: 45
|  Kick his ass to the curb. I did when a so called relationship turned out to be just Friends with Benefits in his eyes.
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| 4/12/2008 4:34:37 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
| I would not waste my time with him.
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| 4/12/2008 4:59:14 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
smilen
Rumford, ME
age: 45
| move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned and then dont give ur heart so easy and never expect forever his loss girl not urs thers better out there and if u dont find any1 rite off no biggy take time for urself get to know u and what u want u can be better then him good luck girl
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| 4/12/2008 5:03:11 PM | what would you do if this happened to you? | |
razorback32
Little Rock, AR
age: 34
| you know wow... i sure wished i knew what makes a womans mind tick !!! i mean its the same old song and dance .
1. woman meets man
2. man moves in
3. treats her like crap
4. she cant live without him
and the good guys treat their lady good and i guess they think he treats me this well then i deserve better inwhich is never the case they always end up being miserable ,and try to mend whats been broken ................. i realy dont know .....men like that give us good guys a bad wrap ...but thats life deal with it or stop playin the game ................. late
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