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4/12/2008 10:25:01 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

llama0755
Delaware, OH
age: 19

i wanna know something. how can you jeopardize you friendship by going on a date with them? ive been told this by many of my friends threw my past. with each one ive thought this, so how can you jeopardize a friendship? b4 you answer this i want you to think about this. good relationships come from friendship first. with that being said how can relationships come from friendships unless you take a chance of jeopardizeing that friendship. or is that friendship not that meaningfull so you can jeopardize it?

4/12/2008 10:27:19 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47

My last relationship, 12 years, started as friends first. You always want to love your best friend

4/12/2008 10:35:23 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

llama0755
Delaware, OH
age: 19

tlc you are so beautiful. you remind me of this one person that comes into work all the time. the diffrence i can see between the two of you is that you are much more mindfull than she is. she is kinda ditzy.

4/13/2008 2:33:01 AMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45

Because if the friendship is good then why screw it up with a relationship???

I KNOW this is something I question.

A good friend
a GREAT friend
have sex? Lose the friend?

Where's the GREAT in that???????

IDK
and that's
JMO
dang it.


4/13/2008 2:38:12 AMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

roket
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 51

Yah Im with Gone on that one. I want to save the greatest single physical experience I can share with a woman for strangers and non-friends. Why would I ever want to give an actual friend that kind of ecstasy? yep... My true friends are cut off. That's how you really show appreciation for a true friend. By leaving them at home by themselves watching tv while you share sexual bliss with a relative non friend. Sound logic indeed lol.

4/13/2008 3:06:30 AMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45

dang it roket way to go a ruin my great reason for not having sexual bliss with a friend!!!!!!!!!!!

Now I suppose I must have it and share it!

I have 44 friends on my list too.....



hey....that's sort of ok?!?!

4/13/2008 3:09:58 AMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

renfoxxy
Kenosha, WI
age: 27

try coming up with a plan first on what will happen between the two of you if the relationship goes sour. i know that sounds crazy, but hey it might work!

4/13/2008 5:04:13 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

llama0755
Delaware, OH
age: 19

foxxy i dont think that would be a problem bc your first friends then you extend that friendship to a relationship. it says that you wanna take that friendship to the next lvl and have it last for a life time. i cant see how going from a friendship to a relationship would hurt. your friends alretty so you can stand to be around eachother for sometime. you have the bace set up alretty be you alretty know what they like and dont like. whaat makes them smile and what makes them cry. the only thing i can see that is diffent between a friendship and a relationship is a diffrent kind of love and how close you are to one another (distance wise)

4/13/2008 5:08:11 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43

ahummm....45!



4/13/2008 6:16:34 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 45



4/13/2008 6:19:50 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35

People that really are your friend won't give up on you just because you wanna talk about feelings... well.. unless you open the door naked when she was just coming over for video games.

4/13/2008 6:21:36 PMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

curious70000
Wyandotte, MI
age: 46

Once you take a friendship to another level you can't go back, there's something missing from then on out, most friendships do NOT good bedfellows make.

4/14/2008 1:58:01 AMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

renfoxxy
Kenosha, WI
age: 27

llama......from the way it sounds you already know what you want to do. so if you think it could work give it a shot if she's willing. if not you may just have to move on and wait for the day she gets jealous seeing you with someone when she knew you wanted her first. maybe after she sees that she'll realize how much you mean to her! just my opinion, but i have seen it happen!

4/14/2008 2:11:17 AMjeopardize? how will you jeopardize friendship? 

mosplace
Boulder City, NV
age: 46

Now this is a tricky question because yes you need to be friends in order to be lovers. Now if you are friends and both of you have deep soul feelings for each other then it is a relationship that should last hopefully a lifetime. where the saying comes from that why mess up a good friendship one or the other does not "feel" the "soul" part of it Its a nice way of saying I love you like a brother/sister but no more than that. sinerio It you were my friend and we went far enough to have a relationship then things went wrong most couples that split do not get along well after the split so therefore why mess up a good friendship!