| 4/13/2008 6:42:56 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
girlcasper71
Sugar Land, TX
age: 37
| my ex and son's father and i broke up. he began seeing this chic while we were together and when things got really bad he left got with her. now he wants to get back with me, but personally i only wanna F--k'em  so she will know how it feels to have her man go home to her after having F--ked someone else. he aint shit, so having him as my man again will never happen, i just wanna be on his mind when he's with her and have her wandering if he's cheating since she knew he was with me when she pursued him. any suggestions out there?
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| 4/13/2008 6:49:40 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
sea_dragon
Crystal River, FL
age: 31
| I would just be the bigger person and walk away from the situation. He will get what is coming to him through karma. You can hold your head high and proud knowing you did not stoop to his ways.
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| 4/13/2008 6:57:32 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
michael6967275
Columbia, MO
age: 46
| I'd go with Sea on this one.
You may get a jolly out of it, but who knows what else he may "give" you?
STD's are much more common among those with loose standards.Remember every partner you have, you are sleeping with every partner they have had too.
I would have myself checked and thank GOD if the news was I was clean.
Then mentally kick him to the curb and thank GOD again.
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| 4/13/2008 7:00:18 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45
| YEP...i agree with Sea as well.............. dont lower yaself to his level...............Karma works wonders all on its own........cheers maree 
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| 4/13/2008 7:00:26 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
bellahoney
Myrtle Beach, SC
age: 27
| Two wrongs definately don't make a right, and you already know what goes around comes around! Do you really want all that negative energy around you, besides if you think he ain't shit you really wouldn't be sweatin him right now wantin him to be thinkin about you and all that.
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| 4/13/2008 7:01:43 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
rocket000
Murrayville, GA
age: 50 online now!
| I agree. Although you are hurt and angry do NOT plot revenge. As you move forward make certain that you pick a man that is mentally and emotionally able to be a good partner. Your ex is a cheat. He will cheat on this other woman too. I'm willing to bet she threw his sorry a-- out and he can't stand being alone which is why he is knocking on your door.
Most importantly he is the father of your child. He may be a lousy boyfriend or husband but he has a responsibility to co-parent and support his child. You can be cool but NOT HOSTILE. Do not harass him about this "other woman". He is aware you already know about the situation.
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| 4/13/2008 7:02:15 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
celeste57
Ramsey, NJ
age: 51
| I'm w/ sea and Michael, What comes around goes around and you never know what would happen. Also you may be sorry in the long run. I've been where you are now and believe me it is better to take the high road on this one. You will be a better person for it. Good Luck
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| 4/13/2008 7:03:06 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48 online now!
| she might have an std, and you will catch it, do you want her to be with you forever.... think about it, my x did the same thing. cheating that is...
the bad thing is he did have sex w me and i didnt know, till all hell broke loose in dec07,
naw, your in the angry i am going to kill him and bury him under the house stage
i know you dont feel it now, but that stage will pass, then the how the heck am i going to survive financially and raise my kid stage will happen
the guy above me is right, be the good person you know you are, and consider your self lucky for you are very pretty and young and when your ready.... and give your self the time to work through all the stages of mourning a relationship.... then go out and have some fun with the available males out there.
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| 4/13/2008 7:06:53 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
honeyhoney4
Benton, IL
age: 71
| No!! Wrong idea!!  Right now you are
hurting whether you realize it or not.
Time will heal and you will not regret
making the right decision
[Edited 4/13/2008 7:09:21 AM]
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| 4/13/2008 7:07:19 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
age: 51
| She will always wonder, don't use sex to play games. She will wonder because he did it to you. Be the better person, show some respect for yourself and move forward.
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| 4/13/2008 7:11:03 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
| Vengeance is mine, saith the Lawd....
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| 4/13/2008 7:14:33 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
debi01
Pasco, WA
age: 50
| Kick him to the curb!!!
Do not lower yourself to their level
Your much better than that
Move on and up in life,
He will get his, Karma, is wonderful
Good luck
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| 4/13/2008 7:25:57 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
doowopden
Philadelphia, PA
age: 48
| The best case of revenge that I can think of is this.On a summer day when all the neighbors we're sitting outside,This guy on my street came home and found his wife in bed with another man.He told the guy to leave. he then got his wife and threw her outside naked. told the neighbors what she did and locked the door.now everyone knows she is a pig.
2nd best.A women that my ex worked with found out her husband was cheating.She lead him to believe that she did not know.she had her company transfer her to another state. found an apartment. go up that morning, acted like it was just another day. he went to work. she acted like she was going to work also. he left. a truck pulled up an hour later. she took the whole contents of the house and moved. he came home to an empty ho use and a note. A lie can only remain a lie for so long. it eventually comes out.
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| 4/13/2008 7:33:46 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
books65
Plainfield, NJ
age: 43
| Don't do it. Be a better person and move on. It's his loss sweetie.
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| 4/13/2008 7:35:11 AM | getting revenge.....what would u do | |
italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
| no no...the greastest revenge is healthy living...respect yourself and don't look back.
It may not seem like a great revenge, but in the long haul, it is....When you show indifference and that you have moved on with your life, THAT is revenge and the beauty of is, you will be so into your own new better life, that you won't even care.
Zen baby... think Zen..
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