 bry11ca Canton, MI age: 44
| Here's a little Chocolate SunBeach . . . yummy
Bry 
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 sensuousmagic Grand Prairie, TX age: 57
| No. I would think the person was trying to buy my attention or my friendship. Friendship comes from my own free will and not there pocketbook.  
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epiphany4me Bullhead City, AZ age: 48
| I would!!!
I never get a second date.
 
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 oldeschoolcharm Monroe, WA age: 47
| I think the most expensive gift I gave on a first date was a $15 bouquet of flowers (certainly NOT roses), or a book on a subject my date liked. I usually expect to pick up the tab for coffee (Its a cup of coffee for pete's sake, not a marriage proposal!), and if we hit it off, I offer to buy lunch/dinner as appropriate. Basically, the first date is on me.
The most expensive gift I ever gave (except an engagement ring, or in the course of my former marriage), wasn't for a "date", per se, but the woman who I spent New Year's Eve 07/08 with: neither of us were seeing anyone, we are the best of friends, and we had dinner at the best five star Italian restaurant in Seattle. She is Christian, though not rabid about it, and was lamenting her inability to find a decent guy. I had purchased a small, very plain, gold cross and chain for her, about $250 total. She met a guy two weeks later and has been dating him since.
I have a habit of bringing a bouquet of flowers whenever I drive to see eyeswideopened and I know the last ones have likely wilted. They look pretty on her dining room table.
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crazycanadian22 San Diego, CA age: 21
| Hell nooo!!!!!!!!! Cuz what if you relize this guy isn't what your looking for and he gets you something expensive then you kinda feel obligated to c him again even though you know nothing could come from. You'd be using someone which isn't right
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susyk42 Appleton, WI age: 43
| I wouldn't. I want to get to know someone before I accept any gifts. It would be too awkward for me
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barbara1 Reston, VA age: 52
| YES!
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 bella2020 Lebanon, OH age: 47
| No, I don't think you should ,Even dinner sometimes makes me feel obligated,Unless you have a man that knows how to not make you feel that way,And there is a few out there.
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