| 4/13/2008 8:31:03 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
craig703
Quincy, IL
age: 48
| Yeah I would- no obligations.
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| 4/13/2008 8:32:31 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| No way, people aren't going to give you something without anything in return.
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| 4/13/2008 8:33:43 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
craig703
Quincy, IL
age: 48
| Ok Muffy what can I get for you?
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| 4/13/2008 8:37:02 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
| sorry, wouldn't be able to repay you...
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| 4/13/2008 8:40:02 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
craig703
Quincy, IL
age: 48
| Not expecting anything- just kidding you- I do a lot of things now with out expecting anything back- I wasn't always this way.
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| 4/13/2008 8:46:31 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 42
| I don't think I could - I may think there's a hidden agenda??
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| 4/13/2008 8:50:42 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
sea_dragon
Crystal River, FL
age: 31
| I am constantly confronted with this dilemma. If you see my car, house, clothes, then you know my answer.
 This is reality.  
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| 4/13/2008 8:57:19 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
tomcatseeker
Mason, OH
age: 45
| If someone wants to show his jentelman side and be sweet, yes I would accept expensive gifts. With that in mind thow it may be a smart way to start a conversation as to why he would be doing such a sweet thing and clear up any thoughts of needing to return a favor by telling him thankyou in return.
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| 4/13/2008 8:59:11 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| If a man wants me to take him seriously, then he better not be buying me expensive things on the first date.
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| 4/13/2008 9:00:50 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
tomcatseeker
Mason, OH
age: 45
| oh and by the way (like that is going to happen often) take it you deserve surprises sometimes in life.
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| 4/13/2008 9:10:21 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
brighteyes4u
Cantonment, FL
age: 40
| I think it depends. I had a first date with a super sweet guy that drove from Gainsville Florida for our date. He gave me a digital camera as a gift after we had lunch. I was really shocked but his reason was that mine had beeen stolen and I needed to have one to take pictures of my kids for memories. So honestly some people do give nice gifts with no expectations. Rare perhaps but they are out there.
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| 4/13/2008 9:16:39 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
emeraldjewel
South Park, PA
age: 53
| Ahhhhhhh how seet bright,thanks for sharing
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| 4/13/2008 9:17:02 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
emeraldjewel
South Park, PA
age: 53
| oopps SWEET
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| 4/13/2008 9:34:06 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
| Nope see I would have given the camera back and said thanks but no thanks. That's just not right. My ex husband giving me a present like that when we were married was different.
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| 4/13/2008 9:38:00 AM | Should we accept expensive gifts on the first date??? | |
mrwally2007
Fort Smith, AR
age: 45 online now!
| What guy would bring more than a few flowers for a first date.
Somethings up there.
His money would be better spent on the street corner.
Least he'd be guaranteed some action that way.
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