| 4/13/2008 12:25:11 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
wvareb1980
Chagrin Falls, OH
age: 27
| Go back and read yourself....so far she's been told that she is in a sorry state and that she should get counseling. She's also been accused of playing with the hearts and minds of others. I know what adultfriendfinder.com is and maybe she does too? Maybe she doesn't? I really don't care either way and that's not the point anyway. She posted what she is looking for, where is the problem? I never saw anywhere here where it says this is DateHookup unless you are bi or gay. Let her wants what she wants and if people don't agree then so be it. I just don't see what there is to debate here?
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| 4/13/2008 12:46:28 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
|  Now I'm confused, so many people on here would be so happy with 1, myself included.
BTW I don't see bashing, all I have read is opinions.
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| 4/13/2008 1:07:59 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Sorry but the player is the reason for the game, both suck. If I'm in a relationship and you can take the person I'm with, then we didn't have much of a relationship, so that part doesn't bother me. But this is a sight for the most part of people looking for the right someONE, not some dozen, perhaps you'd get better results on a sight for those who just want to play games like yourself JMO
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| 4/13/2008 9:18:40 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
kelanie4202369
Cleveland, OH
age: 24
| To all that baby bashed me. So I did not mean I'm a player. It was an expresion.(I dont care if I spell wrong cuz I burned the f*uck out of my hands ) I am here looking for LOVE in the other sex. I have had it b/4 and the badword broke our hearts. She said she wanted to marry us and have kids together. Its been 1 1/2 years since then and now I'm healed and I'd like to find a girl that loves to be loved and NOT in just a sexual way. Oh and I have been in therapy since I was 16. I am a cutter and have been clean from cutting for over 4 years now. I have been cleared with a clean bill of sanity. How bout you? Got your paper work? No? So who desided you don't need to see a psych? Only they can say for sure that you're saine. But go ahead and think you're fine. I'm not the one on her beating down ppl for having some1 to make myself feel better about not having some1. Have you ever thought that just maybe this girls life might have sucked so bad she deserves all the love she can find. Love is presious to me. Any girl that I may find will be treated better than any princess ever born. P.S.Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me.
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| 4/13/2008 9:28:02 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
redneckhippy
Pottsboro, TX
age: 40
| Wait!
OPie, you live in a college town.
A rather large city at that, and you
need to come on a singles dating site
to cruise for other chicks?
Can we buy a clue?
[edited for proper spacing of words.]
[Edited 4/13/2008 9:29:44 PM]
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| 4/13/2008 9:45:23 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
kelanie4202369
Cleveland, OH
age: 24
| Uhh...Have you ever been to Cleveland? Unless you are in a building you are not safe. True there are collages but unless you go there you don't meet anyone. I'm not just looking for a good time tho. I want the real deal. Why can't any1 understand that? I love men and women and I want to be able to love both together as a trio. It is possable to love more than 1 person at a time. Just cuz I have a man does not mean I only want sex from this site. Thats the last thing I want to happen between us and a new girl. I want LOVE first or at least make sure they care b/4 I have sex w/them. Thats why I DON'T like adult sites. Its not sex I'm looking for. I do want a long term relationship. Something stedy like I had for 5 YEARS w/my last girlfriend.
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| 4/13/2008 10:04:50 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
grill_master
Crawfordsville, IN
age: 46
| Hello 
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| 4/13/2008 10:05:38 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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| 4/13/2008 11:16:41 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
redneckhippy
Pottsboro, TX
age: 40
| Uhh...Have you ever been to Cleveland?
Why, yes I have. Many friends who live in the area.
The 'burb of Lorraine was quite fun too.
Please spare me the sandbox ghetto talk... mmmkay?
Let's just look at your local resources for a moment
Not safe unless in a building?
Otay!
The bars, clubs, coffee shops, and burger joints
around the college campuses aren't in buildings?
There are dozens and dozens of bi chicks in
those establishments, within your own age group,
if that's what you're looking for.
I won't bash you for being bi, nor will I attack
you for being on a singles site while you're in a
relationship. But, I will point out the obvious.
That you're becoming flustered with the online
search, while you've closed your mind completely
to the local, in person resources that you have at
your disposal.
Think!
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| 4/13/2008 11:22:19 PM | Just a little cofused......... | |
ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
| I agree with you carolinaguy..I was conversing with a man a few months ago, and we began talking on the phone for a few weeks. We agreed to meet for a drink in a nice restraunt and he said he would have a red rose laying on his table. When I got there, I saw the red rose but it was on the table of a couple. I was confused. he approached me, and walked me to the table and intruduced me to his wife. they were searching for a 3some, and the emails we shared were not him at all, but his wife. I was disgusted, and walked out! They had no business being on this site!
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| 4/14/2008 5:25:02 AM | Just a little cofused......... | |
brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
| If you feel the need to stay on a single site, even though you are not single.....
Try the Sex & Dating part of the forum, but I have to say I agree with the other replies, you really should be on another site!
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| 4/14/2008 5:50:58 AM | Just a little cofused......... | |
eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
| wrong thread, wrong site...hope you find someone to love
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| 4/14/2008 6:14:01 AM | Just a little cofused......... | |
wolffdream
Billerica, MA
age: 57
| wow, you guys.
You all have an opinion of what this site is about. YOUR idea of it anyway.
Go look through the sex and dating forum, and see the sexual intimate detailed conversations (?) of people who are obviously looking only for a kinky romp. If they were looking to find that special someONE they would not be posting all that (sometimes gross) stuff in a public forum.
So why are you picking on her being here, looking for a relationship? Because it offends you? She may be confused, but I think half the people on here are, one way or another.
And, shes probably more upfront and honest about what she wants than a lot of people.
so, it may not be what YOU think is right, but cut her a break, and stop telling her to go to a raunchy site. She has expressed that's not what she is looking for.
A little judgemental here??????????
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| 4/14/2008 7:09:24 AM | Just a little cofused......... | |
iwantyoutoo
Lubbock, TX
age: 41
| First of all, I would like to say to
the OP that ,"this is a free country
we live in, and what ever floats your boat,
well I say go for it!"
For all of the posters that seem so repulsed
that she would be looking for more than one
partner, I say, "you need to grow up!"
If your not interested in what she is looking
for, then move on to one that has the same values
that you have!
It is not the job of each one of you to judge who is,
or is not worthy to post in the forums, or much less
be a member of DH!!!!
This is Dustins position
as creator, and moderator of this site!
[Edited 4/14/2008 7:24:14 AM]
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| 4/14/2008 8:24:51 AM | Just a little cofused......... | |
cajunmister
Kinder, LA
age: 57
| As I read the sign this is DATE...HOOKUP!!; not find the love of my life; not players excluded; as long as someone is upfront with what they want
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