| 4/14/2008 3:48:52 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
thedance75
Shreveport, LA
age: 32
| the is a george strait song in regards to this, listen to it, it is perfect, I think it is called, you can lead a heart to love (but you can't make it fall)
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| 4/14/2008 3:54:42 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| Marriage means falling in Love over and over again, always with the same person.....JMO
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| 4/14/2008 3:59:32 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
katrina_sq
Mena, AR
age: 39
| Supposed to be anyway. If that was always the case, a whole lot of us would still be married.
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| 4/14/2008 4:10:14 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
nashoba_miko
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
| yep........God knows I had to do that many many times, but when HE says it.......lol....it meant he found someone else and had gotten to know her enough...lol. His loss, my gain......
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| 4/14/2008 4:11:49 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
tomcatseeker
Mason, OH
age: 45
| If you truly care about them which I am sure you do, take the time to sit down and discus this as friends. A true friend will listen and want to know the truth and be glad in the end that you told them. Honesty is one of the most important parts in a relationship. Holding this back will only hurt you both. You may end up remaining friends or moving on, but at least you were open and honest. It will hurt and probably hurts now to realize what you have but, life is short. Do what you know is right .
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| 4/14/2008 4:23:37 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
snowbird1961
Los Lunas, NM
age: 47
| you have to be true to your heart and that person, so yes.
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| 4/14/2008 4:57:03 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
misssmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
| yes especially if you think there might be someone better out there for you, because there probably is...never never ever settle for less than what you want or need to be happy...
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| 4/14/2008 5:02:34 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
tupac78
Jeffersonville, IN
age: 30
| i would let them know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    
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| 4/14/2008 5:07:01 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 48
| I married her. I knew it was wrong but it was the "next step". So it didn't hurt too much when she left,...just the timing of it. I was in the middle of chemo. But I like the idea that maybe I know how to do it right the next time.
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| 4/14/2008 5:09:02 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
luvinlifetou
Biddeford, ME
age: 42
| Sometimes you are in love with them..
but its not the right kind of love!!!!!
You can love someone sooo much...
and its not the I wanna marry you and spend the rest of my life with you love!
But its nice...if you can end it with friendship...Doncha think?!??
JMO
Luvin
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| 4/14/2008 5:11:45 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
| knittinkitten , You said it best! but no I don't think I could continue in relationship if I wasn't in love with the person.. I don't it's fair to either person...JMO
[Edited 4/14/2008 5:12:56 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 5:37:35 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
casbah
Warrensburg, MO
age: 54
| That's a good question, & I must say that I don't think most people know the difference from Loving someone or being In-Love with someone. Maybe I'm from the old school but I dont beleive most people even realize what Love is. I'm talking now about adult men & women. I think you can Love on many different levels. As a friend or someone you admire & wish the best for. Someone you enjoy being with & sometimes close. If you come to the point in your relationship where you have to ask yourself am I "In-Love" with this person then you must ask:
Am I happy?
Do I feel we are growing together?
How has our relationship changed?
Sometimes you have to look inside fore the answers.
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| 4/14/2008 5:54:15 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
lipsticklilac
Turlock, CA
age: 57
| Why would anyone want to continue on with the relationship if your not married ??? Can you live the rest of your life with that person ?? It's not an easy row to hoe even if you do LOVE them.. and without it ?? Are you nuts ??
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| 4/14/2008 5:56:56 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
harley9482
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 25
| If the relationship was intended to be about love, and I did not genuinely feel i was in love with them, I would try to gently alter it with them, to where we were still close, and showed we still cared for eachother, but I wouldn't end the connection with someone.
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| 4/15/2008 5:11:30 PM | Would you end a relationship because you were not "In-Love" with them? | |
terminalchaos
Tampa, FL
age: 48
| What would your reason be to go forward in it?
Do you "fear" being alone?
What would that say about your standards with happiness in "your" life?
What would be the end result?
If "love" is not there, how can one call it a relationship?
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