| 4/14/2008 1:12:53 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
nelly1981
Westfield, MA
age: 27
| that was exactly what i was trying to say just not in so many words or maybe i jus worded it wrong but if we treat each other as equals maybe we can actually go somwhere in this life. life is too short for people to be evil n hurtful jus be happy and go along with the flow of life stop stressing the small stuff we will all find happiness at somtime
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| 4/14/2008 1:13:14 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
singlemomxo
Calgary, AB
age: 46
| Posting on forums, is all in fun.I don't think anyone should take it too seriously. Yes, there are some forums that are good for a decussion, but most are all in fun. I wouldn't judge any one for any of there posts, and no one should judge them.We should get to know people for who and what they are.
So don't take my forum posts too seriously.
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| 4/14/2008 1:15:19 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
| Eddie...lets try these instead:
-Confidence.
-Approval.
-Acceptance.
-Love.
-Compassion
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Positive reinforcements.
Tha last thing a human with emotinal problems needs, its a bashing. They will NOT harden up, they break...
[Edited 4/14/2008 1:16:36 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 1:17:09 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Eddie...lets try these instead:
-Confidence.
-Approval.
-Acceptance.
-Love.
-Compassion
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Positive reinforcements
But life isn't just about those things.. people have to be able to deal with bad times and bad people without a fluffy pillow of love and kindness.. sometimes a good hard fall to the scum covered rocks that they have to slowly climb out of is better for a person than being "saved" all the time.
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| 4/14/2008 1:20:46 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
tahoefreak64
South Lake Tahoe, CA
age: 44
| gotta agree w/eddie on that point
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| 4/14/2008 1:25:07 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
| Eddy...Not saved...but encouraged. there is a HUGE difference.
telling someone you are FAT all the time, will not make them to loose weight, positive reinforcement with very strong motivations is what will give the push they need.
Let me give you an example:
You are too thin. You need to gain some weight. Say that I'm your partner, and I keep calling you names, and make you feel inadequate. You are depressed more and more, and loose weight more and more.
Then one day, Angelina Jolie calls you up and says, "Eddy ... I saw your picture on DH. I have a movie coming up, and i need a partner, with a bunch of sex scenes, like "Original Sin"...There is a $200,000 check for you, and I need you to be ready by next week...HOWEVER, ou are too thin for that role. I need you to gain 25 lbs by then"...what would you do?
I am willing to bet that you'll be eating like a horse and gain your pounds, before the week is over. Wouldn't you?
So, there it comes your motivation, and positive reinforcement...
[Edited 4/14/2008 1:27:30 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 1:26:41 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 50
| Thinking it's time for a nap.......
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| 4/14/2008 1:26:54 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 51
| Sometimes ya gotta hit bottom hard n fast so you'll bounce back to the top.
Anyone that falls apart from the attack of a keyboard commando is in no shape to deal w/folks in public or private.
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| 4/14/2008 1:30:37 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
ravravrav
Vancouver, BC
age: 38
| You are a beutiful woman with lots of interesting things, you like in life. Would you like to carry this line on.
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| 4/14/2008 1:31:15 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
| Thats not all...we are not just talking about people with emotional problems...we are also talking about people who are being bashed for who they are, and the choices they have made.
No one is better or superior because he or she is white, straight, cocky and good looking (in their own eyes).
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| 4/14/2008 1:32:23 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| you were already sick cleek, why else would a gay guy like you be bashing all the ladies on the site and then interject the BS just to stir stuff up. Why don't you go back to where sic f**ks like you come from? Quick licking your hand in your picture and use toilet paper like everyone else.
Sorry irresistiblered, but this joker is one of the reasons things get out of hand, he's only here to stir up crap, and loves to bash people who have real problems to them and are asking for help or advice. Swears he hates women and is gay. So why keep things stirred up on a dating site.
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| 4/14/2008 1:35:13 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
gunbunny
Fort Smith, AR
age: 52
| I think that we all have said or done things in the past that we regret. There are a lot of variables involved age, location, upbringing, hormones, drugs and alcohol, peer pressure, social status, insanity and probably a lot of other things I haven't mentioned.
None of us like to think that there is something wrong with our mental process but I remember my psychology teacher telling our class that we are all insane to a certain degree and if you ever cracked open a book on abnormal psychology and read all the different symptoms if your like me you would think that you have all of them.
So I guess that the best person for you would be someone that is just as crazy as you are in the same way 
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| 4/14/2008 1:41:19 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| Thanks cleek uncle jesse was a good man with an honest heart, I can wear that name with pride. Don't ask stupid questions I've already read your other post and yes you still bash women, and your only friend is you gay lover mark.
and come back with whatever you like we've tied up this post enough so i won't respond, cause your opinion, I could care less
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| 4/14/2008 1:47:48 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
| Calm down now Sitkarains but good thought.
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| 4/14/2008 1:49:38 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Then one day, Angelina Jolie calls you up and says, "Eddy ... I saw your picture on DH. I have a movie coming up, and i need a partner, with a bunch of sex scenes, like "Original Sin"...There is a $200,000 check for you, and I need you to be ready by next week...HOWEVER, ou are too thin for that role. I need you to gain 25 lbs by then"...what would you do?
I don't find her attractive.. I'd pass.
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