| 4/14/2008 12:51:23 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
| Some of you guys who hate, instead of love...bash and banter, instead of encourage and praise.....come on guys, answer Why:
Why oh why:
-So much hate?
-Would you believe you are Better and Superior to ANYONE?
-Would you bash women who are not to your likings?
-Would you bash other guys who have a different life style, or different way of life?
-Would you portray yourself as a total A.. H...?
-Why?
Because, I know that I know, that I know, there is so much goodness, class, brovado, nobility, sense of protection, compassion, service, and romance in each and every one of you.
Don't you realize that you are on a dating site, and being judged for everything you say and do, and that a potential partner, mate, and lover exists right here, right now, for each one of you. Do you not understand that behavior like this, is not only offensive, hurtful, but damn right unattractive?
Come on guys, show a little love...you'll go a whole lot further in our eyes...promise.
(Corrections, per your request...for Sitka)
UPDATE:
This thread was reached a conclusion and is now closed...Thanks for participating.)
[Edited 4/14/2008 4:35:53 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 12:52:07 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Make me
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| 4/14/2008 12:53:57 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
daddyduck
Splendora, TX
age: 54
| If she whoops you Eddy I'm gonna laugh
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| 4/14/2008 12:55:28 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
| nice post  ...and soo true. i think when you post in the forums you put a little of yourself out there and people are either drawn to it or repelled.
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| 4/14/2008 12:56:20 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| If she whoops you Eddy I'm gonna laugh
No. Not everything a man does has to impress some woman.
They should be impressing men now.
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| 4/14/2008 12:58:21 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
nelly1981
Westfield, MA
age: 27
| i so agree with you men u really need to step up your game and so do we women but no one is going to find love if we all act like jack a**es and are rude and hurtful so i hope you men and women pay attention and read this and follow i know that i may not be the right person for giving out advice but this is one subject i feel that i need to speak on so if you have a problem with what i have said either keep it to yourself or feel free to email me and tell me what u think 
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| 4/14/2008 1:00:28 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
nelly1981
Westfield, MA
age: 27
| personally i think with that attitude u will never find a woman who likes ur attitude and if they do they probably have low self esteem
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| 4/14/2008 1:01:07 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
cleek
Rockville, MD
age: 28
| women power give me a break
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| 4/14/2008 1:01:35 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| personally i think with that attitude u will never find a woman who likes ur attitude and if they do they probably have low self esteem
I'm happy single now.. why would I wanna change that?
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| 4/14/2008 1:01:47 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
me4aminute_1
Rutland, IA
age: 35
| It isn't just the guys though.......I have been guilty of being mean or judgmental. I do know of who or what you are speaking of. It is one thing to have fun and let your hair down so to speak, but when you trash someone because they don't have the same beliefs it is crazy. I don't believe in a lot of the sexual stuff that is on this site, but I don't care............I'm not sleeping with them. I give my opinion and then go from there..........heck, some of my best friends are girls that will sleep with anyone. Doesn't make them less my friends.........just something I wouldn't do. I have always spoke out about the gay male bashing while the lesbian women get cheers. If you aren't sleeping with them why do you care what they say...........
cleek.........what do you want a women that has no self esteem and is just needy. Please.........you can't have it both ways?
[Edited 4/14/2008 1:03:54 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 1:04:38 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
| Its Evileddy's fault ,he started all this ,bad eddy,bad
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| 4/14/2008 1:06:41 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
| The point is not to impress anybody...just be true enough to yourself and to your brothers and sisters.
I have never said that you should lie and make yourself be something above anyone else, but to respect and have decency. Some guys come here and post absurd and idiotic ideas so they can get a few others like themselves, cheer them up and they have threads with their name on it. They don't understand how these posts will break a few hearts, bring tears to some eyes, or damages the pride and self respect of those fragile souls.
Women who have a few extra pounds, men who live differently, the women who live differently...who can say that they are worst, or better than another?
The only thing that will sets apart are how we respect others and have true compassion for the human kind....period.
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| 4/14/2008 1:08:08 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| They don't understand how these posts will break a few hearts, bring tears to some eyes, or damages the pride and self respect of those fragile souls.
oh please.. if reading some text on a web page causes a person to cry they have bigger issues than a few Internet meanies.
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| 4/14/2008 1:11:19 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
irresistiblered
Aurora, CO
age: 43
| Sure, eddy...maybe...but why be a cause for validating the shit they've got, heard, or suffered for in life?
Most people who are the target for these bashings have suffered constantly, by their fmily, their partner, and the society. The last thing they need is to come in a new community, hear that they are laughed at, ridiculed, and frowned upon, may it be the weight, the looks, or the sexual orientation.
This is high school all over again.
[Edited 4/14/2008 1:14:03 PM]
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| 4/14/2008 1:12:18 PM | What is WRONG with...(Thread Concluded, as in Finished) | |
evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
| Sure, eddy...maybe...but why be a cause for validating the shit they've got, heard, or suffered for in life?
In the hopes that they will harden up and deal with the solutions.. and not fixate on their problems.
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